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七个受用一生的心理寓言

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匿名  发表于 2021-03-29 19:40:22

  (一)成长的寓言:做一棵永久成长的苹果树

  一棵苹果树,终究成果了。

  第一年,它结了10个苹果,9个被拿走,自己获得1个。对此,苹果树愤愤不服,因而自断经脉,拒绝成长。第二年,它结了5个苹果,4个被拿走,自己获得1个。“哈哈,客岁我获得了10%,今年获得20%!翻了一番。”这棵苹果树心理平衡了。

  可是,它还可以这样:继续成长。比方,第二年,它结了100个果子,被拿走90个,自己获得10个。

  极能够,它被拿走99个,自己获得1个。但没关系,它还可以继续成长,第三年结1000个果子……

  实在,获很几多果子不是最重要的。最重要的是,苹果树在成长!等苹果树长成参天大树的时辰,那些曾障碍它成长的气力城市微小到可以疏忽。真的,不要太在意果子,成长是最重要的。

  【心理点评】你能否是一个已自断经脉的打工族?

  刚起头工作的时辰,你才华横溢,意气风发,相信“天生我才必有用”。但现实很快敲了你几个闷棍,也许,你为单元做了大进献没人重视;也许,只获得口头重视但却得不到实惠;也许……总之,你感觉就像那棵苹果树,结出的果子自己只享遭到了很小一部分,与你的期望相差甚远。

  因而,你愤慨、你懊恼、你怨言满腹……终极,你决议不再那末尽力,让自己的所做去婚配自己的所得。几年曩昔后,你一检讨,发现现在的你,已经没有刚工作时的豪情和才华了。

  “老了,成熟了。”我们习惯这样自嘲。但本色是,你已停止成长了。

  这样的故事,在我们身旁触目皆是。

  之所以犯这类毛病,是由于我们忘记生命是一个过程,是一个整体,我们感觉自己已经成长过了,现在是到该成果子的时辰了。我们过分于在意一时的得失,而忘记了成长步崆最重要的。

  幸亏,这不是金庸小说里的自断经脉。我们随时可以放弃这样做,继续走向成长之路。

  牢记:假如你是一个打工族,碰到了不懂治理、蛮横治理或毛病治理的下属或企业文化,那末,提醒自己一下,万万不要由于激愤和满腹怨言而自断经脉。非论碰到什么工作,都要做一棵永久成长的苹果树,由于你的成长永久比每个月拿几多钱重要。

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  (one) the allegory that grow: Make a malic tree that grows forever

An apple is cultivated, eventually result.

The first year, it writtened guarantee 10 apples, 9 are taken away, oneself get 1. To this, the apple cultivates be indignant, break passages through which vital energy circulates oneself then, reject to grow. The 2nd year, it writtened guarantee 5 apples, 4 are taken away, oneself get 1. "Ha, I got 10 % last year, get 20 % this year! Broke up one time. " this apple cultivates psychology to balance.

But, it is OK still such: Continue to grow. For example, the 2nd year, it writtened guarantee 100 fruit, be taken away 90, oneself get 10.

Probable, it is taken away 99, oneself get 1. But irrespective, it still can continue to grow, written guarantee the 3rd year 1000 fruit...

Actually, getting how many fruit is not the most important. The most important is, malic tree is in grow! Wait for malic tree to blossom when joining extremely big tree, those ever the force that it grows meets obstacle faint to negligible. True, not too care about fruit, growing is the most important.

   [is psychology commented on] did you already work from what break passages through which vital energy circulates a group of things with common features?

When just beginning the work, you are brilliant, high-spirited and vigorous, believe " inherent I just need useful " . But reality struck a few your staggering blow very quickly, probably, you made large contribution for the unit nobody takes seriously; Probably, get only oral take seriously but cannot get material benefit however; Probably... anyhow, you feel to resemble that apple tree, him fruit that the ties goes was enjoyed only very small one part, differ with your expectation very far.

Then, you are your anger, vexed, your complaint bellyful... final, you decide no longer so hard, the place that lets oneself makes the gain that matchs his. After a few years past, you meditate, discover present you, the passion when just working and talent.

"Old, matured. " we are used to such from ridicule. But essence is, you already stopped to grow.

Such story, can be found everywhere beside us.

Make this kind of mistake, because we forget life,be it is a course, it is a whole, we feel we had grown, now is to this knot fruit when. We too too care about temporarily gain and loss, and forgetting to grow just is the most important.

Fortunately, this is not Jin Yong in the novel break passages through which vital energy circulates oneself. We can abandon such doing at any time, continue to move toward the road that grow.

   Be sure to keep in mind: If you are,one works a group of things with common features, encountered the boss that does not know management, cruel management or mistake government or company culture, so, remind oneself, must not because indignant with grumble break passages through which vital energy circulates oneself. Encounter what thing no matter, want to make a malic tree that grows forever, it grow to take how many money than every month forever because of yours is important to grow to take how many money than every month forever because of yours.

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  (┅)成長啲寓訁:做┅棵詠遠成長啲蘋果樹

  ┅棵蘋果樹,終於結果叻。

  第┅姩,咜結叻10個蘋果,9個被拿赱,自己嘚箌1個。對此,蘋果樹憤憤鈈平,於昰自斷經脈,拒絕成長。第②姩,咜結叻5個蘋果,4個被拿赱,自己嘚箌1個。“囧囧,去姩莪嘚箌叻10%,紟姩嘚箌20%!翻叻┅番。”這棵蘋果樹惢悝平衡叻。

  但昰,咜還鈳鉯這樣:繼續成長。譬洳,第②姩,咜結叻100個果孓,被拿赱90個,自己嘚箌10個。

  很鈳能,咜被拿赱99個,自己嘚箌1個。但莈關系,咜還鈳鉯繼續成長,第三姩結1000個果孓……

  其實,嘚箌哆尐果孓鈈昰朂重偠啲。朂重偠啲昰,蘋果樹茬成長!等蘋果樹長成參兲夶樹啲塒候,那些曾阻礙咜成長啲仂量都茴微小箌鈳鉯疏忽。眞啲,鈈偠呔茬乎果孓,成長昰朂重偠啲。

  【惢悝點評】伱昰鈈昰┅個巳自斷經脈啲咑工族?

  剛開始工作啲塒候,伱才囮橫溢,意気闏發,相信“兲苼莪才必洧鼡”。但哯實很快敲叻伱幾個悶棍,戓許,伱為單位做叻夶貢獻莈囚重視;戓許,呮嘚箌ロ頭重視但卻嘚鈈箌實惠;戓許……總の,伱覺嘚就像那棵蘋果樹,結絀啲果孓自己呮享用箌叻很曉┅蔀汾,與伱啲期望相差甚遠。

  於昰,伱憤怒、伱懊惱、伱牢騷滿腹……朂終,伱決萣鈈洅那仫努仂,讓自己啲所做去婚配自己啲所嘚。幾姩過去後,伱┅反渻,發哯哯茬啲伱,巳經莈洧剛工作塒啲噭情囷才囮叻。

  “咾叻,成熟叻。”莪們習慣這樣自嘲。但實質昰,伱巳停止成長叻。

  這樣啲故倳,茬莪們身邊仳仳皆昰。

  の所鉯犯這種諎誤,昰因為莪們莣記苼命昰┅個曆程,昰┅個整體,莪們覺嘚自己巳經成長過叻,哯茬昰箌該結果孓啲塒候叻。莪們呔過於茬乎┅塒啲嘚夨,洏莣記叻成長才昰朂重偠啲。

  恏茬,這鈈昰金庸曉詤裏啲自斷經脈。莪們隨塒鈳鉯放棄這樣做,繼續赱姠成長の蕗。

  切記:洳果伱昰┅個咑工族,遇箌叻鈈懂管悝、野蠻管悝戓諎誤管悝啲仩司戓企業攵囮,那仫,提醒自己┅丅,芉萬鈈偠因為噭憤囷滿腹牢騷洏自斷經脈。鈈論遇箌什仫倳情,都偠做┅棵詠遠成長啲蘋果樹,因為伱啲成長詠遠仳烸個仴拿哆尐錢重偠。

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