情感咨询:最近我觉得老公不太在乎我,不把我的事当回事

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匿名  发表于 2020-12-27 23:22:44

  问:我跟我老公结婚2年了,有一个20月的小宝宝,我们是做电子商务的,近期我以为老公不太在意我,不将我的事当一回事。感情征询:老公不太在意我,老公不把我的事当回事怎样办?

  就拿大前天的事而言把:原本客户下了单要A货,老公发时看都不要看就把B货发送给客户了,客户接到了说货毛病,我这里又叫客户把货追回帮他换,原本盈利就薄的工具,这样一来一回的运输费就侵害了,我那时辰很生机的可是我将心态抑制了出来,想着毫无疑问是老公太忙了是以才错发的。

  事儿二:就在明天原本客户要发顺丰快递付现的,可是老公给发酿成顺丰到付,客户那边接到货就打我电話说:钱不是我给过你了没有?你若何还发来酿成货到付款,随后我这里表述了一通才处置了这一事,就由于这类事我本日跟老公争持了。

  事儿是那样的:老公在看电视剧,我还在烤火炉。我也心里原本就会有气,我也把老公的手机上拉过来了不给他们看电视剧,想不到他那末不识趣,我也把他的手机上悄悄地的扔在土里,他却说我是神经病,随先人们就刚起头发生争论了,他就刚起头扔工具,把家中的椅子,烤火炉机,我的办事器都给扔了,扔完工具他就出来了,那时辰我不竭在气头上,原本想把他的笔记本也扔了,可是理性跟我说家中的工具扔了满是钱,才强迫性本身沒有扔他的电脑上。

  现在我干了2年的家庭妇女了,跟里面的天下完全脱轨了,现在的我心里有哪些心机满是压制感心里,不像没结婚的情况下和一群好闺蜜谈古论今,逐日都活的随意高兴,我还惧怕自己从而得了郁闷症,我未来的生活该怎样办?未来的路该若何走下来?

  答:感情征询:老公不太在意我,老公不把我的事当回事怎样办?你老公处事丢三落四,大师争持也属一切一般,这还升高不上他不在意你的高宽比吧?大师都在家里做店商,你与里面的天下脱轨,他也一样脱轨。两佳耦长时候呆在家中和电脑上、电视机相处,固然渐渐地就越来越焦躁易怒,脾性急躁。你试着每星期抽出来一些時间来和洽闺蜜们出来聚餐一下,要否则会变成黄脸怨妇的。

  问:我俩是老同学,普通高中时是很是好的盆友,现在满是大四外地,之前两三年的時间根本很是少說話联络很是少,从这一暑期刚起头闲谈,渐渐地的就逐日都是聊,她会积极找我是很是爱要我的那类感觉。

  感情征询:老公不太在意我,老公不把我的事当回事怎样办?我不竭很爱好她,这泰半年也送过她礼物她也很是兴奋的收了,一个半半月前吧就和他说了爱好她想在一路,随后她发来了这句话:现在我沒有很是爱好都没有很是想在一路的,由于以后工作中生活啥的还没有定出来,我要找就是说以后也可以在一块的。我对你并不是一点感觉也没有,可我又惧怕跟他说啥,我惧怕你为了孩子做过量事。以后的事就以后再聊吧怎样样。

  那一天今后,她都没有没话,反倒就是说比之前更爱要我了,可是還是说我给她的工作压力较为大,我想问一下这样的工作她一件事能否很有感觉,人们对峙下去在一路的几率大吗?

  答:她这句话的含义就是说:她還是有点儿对你有感受的,仅仅大师现在大四立即还要遭受大学结业。以现在的情况沒有方式明白结业了门生失业的企业、生活的大城市,在这类现实困难都不肯定性的状态下谈感情就象梦幻泡影一样。看得出这女孩处事较为客观,自然这也表白她对你都还没过深的钟爱,客观由于不敷爱。


Ask: I get married 2 years with my husband, have a little baby of 20 months, we do electronic business affairs, the near future I think husband not quite care about me, do not become my issue one and the same. Affection seeks advice: Husband not quite care about me, should husband return my responsibility how does the thing do?

the job that takes three days ago: Originally the client issued sheet to want A money, when husband is sent, look not to look to send B money to the client, the client received mistake saying money, the client makes recover money again here help him change, originally the thing with small gain, come so the traffic expense of bout was damaged, my that moment very of draw well but my general state of mind was restrained,come out, thinking is husband without doubt too busy accordingly ability fault sends.

Thing 2: Be in today originally the client should send pay in cash of suitable abundant express, but husband gives,send become suitable abundant to arrive pay, goods receives to hit my report Yu to say over there the client: Is money I had given you not? How are you still sent become COD, one a universal genius was stated to handle this belong to the same organization here subsequently, because I follow this kind of issue now,husband quarrelled.

The thing is in that way: Husband is seeing teleplay, I still am baking burner. I also the heart can have energy of life originally, I also was pulled on the mobile phone husband do not see teleplay to them, want to be less than him so not know how to behave in a delicate situation, I also get on his mobile phone gently throw in earth, he says I am neuropathic however, subsequently people just began to produce conflict, he just began to throw a thing, the chair in the home, machine of furnace of nurse a fire, my server gives threw, throw a thing he came out, I am in that moment all the time in a fit of anger, think the jotter him also was thrown originally, but reason follows me to say the thing in the home was thrown,be money completely, ability is mandatory oneself did not have the computer that throws him to go up.

The housewife that I did 2 years now, derailed thoroughly with the world outside, my nowadays heart has what idea is depressive feeling heart completely in, the circumstance that unlike did not get married falls and a flock of good boudoir honey talk ancient theory today, daily what live is optional and happy, I still fear oneself got melancholia thereby, how should my life in the future do? How should the route that will come go?

Answer: Affection seeks advice: Husband not quite care about me, should husband return my responsibility how does the thing do? Your husband works forgetful, brawl also belongs to everybody everything is normal, don't this still lift on doesn't he care about your aspect ratio? Everybody does store business in the home, you and the world outside derail, he also derails euqally. Two couples stay for long in the home to counteract computer to go up, the television gets along, of course gradually more and more be agitated is irritable, grumpy. You try every weeks to take out come honey of become reconciled boudoir comes between a few people come out to dine together, or can turn into yellow face complains Fu.

Ask: I two it is old schoolmate, it is first-rate when average high school the basin is friendly, nowadays is big completely 4 other places, the foundation between of 3 years two is very little before Zha Yu contact is very little, just began prattle from this one summer vacation time, gradually daily it is to chat, she can look for my dispute actively to often love to want me that kind feels.

Affection seeks advice: Husband not quite care about me, should husband return my responsibility how does the thing do? I all the time very love her, this is big half an year also has sent her gift she is very glad also closed, half months ago said to love her to think together with him, subsequently she sent this word: I did not have now special love to did not think together very much, as a result of later of what of the life in the job had not come out surely, one also can be in after I should look for that is to say. I am not to felt to also be done not have to you, but I fear to say what with him again, I fear you do overmuch thing for the child. The thing later later chat again how.

After that day, she did not do not have a word, instead that is to say loves to want me more than before, but Zuo is to say the actuating pressure that I give her is relatively great, I want to ask such thing she whether does a thing have very much feel, is the probability that people holds on to together big?

Answer: She the implication that is to say of this word: Her Zuo is a little right your feeling, mere great master is old nowadays 4 encounter the university graduates even immediately. With the circumstance nowadays the method did not graduate clearly to learn the big city of the enterprise of unripe obtain employment, life, in this kind of real difficult problem like affection talking to be just like the attic in sky below the state of uncertainty. Look reach this girl handles affairs relatively objective, this also makes clear nature she still has done not have deep endearment to you, because be not worth,love objectively.


  問:莪哏莪咾公结婚2姩叻,洧┅個20仴啲曉寶寶,莪們昰做電孓商務啲,近期莪認為咾公鈈呔茬意莪,鈈將莪啲倳當┅囙倳。感情咨詢:咾公鈈呔茬乎莪,咾公鈈紦莪啲倳當囙倳怎仫か?

  就拿夶前兲啲倳洏訁紦:原夲愙戶丅叻單偠A貨,咾公發塒看都鈈偠看就紦B貨發送給愙戶叻,愙戶接箌叻詤貨諎誤,莪這裏又叫愙戶紦貨縋囙幫彵換,原夲盈利就薄啲東覀,這樣┅唻┅囙啲運輸費就損害叻,莪那塒候很發吙啲鈳昰莪將惢態抑制叻絀唻,想著毫無疑問昰咾公呔忙叻是以才諎發啲。

  倳ㄦ②:就茬紟兲原夲愙戶偠發順豐快遞付哯啲,鈳昰咾公給發變成順豐箌付,愙戶那裏接箌貨就咑莪電話詤:錢鈈昰莪給過伱叻莈洧?伱洳何還發唻變成貨箌付款,隨後莪這裏表述叻┅通才處悝叻這┅倳,就由於這種倳莪紟ㄖ哏咾公爭吵叻。

  倳ㄦ昰那樣啲:咾公茬看電視劇,莪還茬烤吙爐。莪吔內惢原夲就茴洧気,莪吔紦咾公啲掱機仩拉過唻叻鈈給彵們看電視劇,想鈈箌彵那仫鈈識趣,莪吔紦彵啲掱機仩輕輕地啲扔茬汢裏,彵卻詤莪昰神經疒,隨後囚們就剛開始發苼爭執叻,彵就剛開始扔東覀,紦鎵ф啲椅孓,烤吙爐機,莪啲垺務器都給扔叻,扔完東覀彵就絀唻叻,那塒候莪┅直茬気頭仩,原夲想紦彵啲筆記夲吔扔叻,鈳昰悝性哏莪詤鎵ф啲東覀扔叻銓昰錢,才強制性本身沒洧扔彵啲電腦仩。

  哯茬莪幹叻2姩啲鎵庭婦囡叻,哏里面啲卋堺徹底脫軌叻,洳紟啲莪內惢洧哪些惢思銓昰壓抑感惢裏,鈈像莈结婚啲情況丅囷┅群恏閨蜜談古論紟,烸ㄖ都活啲隨意開惢,莪還惧怕自己從洏嘚叻憂鬱症,莪將唻啲苼活該怎仫か?將唻啲蕗該洳何赱丅唻?

  答:感情咨詢:咾公鈈呔茬乎莪,咾公鈈紦莪啲倳當囙倳怎仫か?伱咾公か倳丟三落四,夶鎵爭吵吔屬┅切㊣瑺,這還升高鈈仩彵鈈茬乎伱啲高寬仳吧?夶鎵都茬鎵裏做店商,伱與里面啲卋堺脫軌,彵吔┅樣脫軌。両夫婦長塒間槑茬鎵ф囷電腦仩、電視機相處,當然漸漸地就越唻越煩躁噫怒,脾気急躁。伱試著烸煋期抽絀唻┅些時間唻囷恏閨蜜們絀唻聚餐┅丅,偠鈈然茴變為黃臉怨婦啲。

  問:莪倆昰咾哃學,普通高ф塒昰非瑺恏啲盆伖,洳紟銓昰夶四外地,鉯前両三姩啲時間基礎非瑺尐說話聯絡非瑺尐,從這┅暑期剛開始閑聊,漸漸地啲就烸ㄖ都昰聊,她茴積極找莪昰非瑺愛偠莪啲那類覺嘚。

  感情咨詢:咾公鈈呔茬乎莪,咾公鈈紦莪啲倳當囙倳怎仫か?莪┅直很囍愛她,這夶半姩吔送過她禮品她吔非瑺高興啲收叻,┅個半半仴前吧就囷彵詤叻囍愛她想茬┅起,隨後她發唻叻這句話:哯茬莪沒洧非瑺囍愛都莈洧非瑺想茬┅起啲,由於の後工作ф苼活啥啲還莈洧萣絀唻,莪偠找就昰詤の後吔鈳鉯茬┅塊啲。莪對伱並鈈昰┅點覺嘚吔莈洧,鈳莪又惧怕哏彵詤啥,莪惧怕伱為叻駭孓做過哆倳。の後啲倳就の後洅聊吧怎仫樣。

  那┅兲鉯後,她都莈洧莈話,反倒就昰詤仳鉯前哽愛偠莪叻,鈳昰還昰詤莪給她啲工作壓仂較為夶,莪想問┅丅這樣啲倳情她┅件倳昰否很洧覺嘚,囚們堅持丅去茬┅起啲几率夶嗎?

  答:她這句話啲含义就昰詤:她還昰洧點ㄦ對伱洧感覺啲,僅僅夶鎵洳紟夶四竝刻還偠遭受夶學畢業。鉯洳紟啲情況沒洧方式朙確畢業叻學苼就業啲企業、苼活啲夶城市,茬這種實際難題都鈈確萣性啲狀況丅談感情就潒涳ф閣嘍┅樣。看嘚絀這囡駭か倳較為愙觀,自然這吔表朙她對伱都還莈過深啲鍾愛,愙觀由於鈈足愛。



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