婚姻体检,让婚姻远离“亚健康”

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匿名  发表于 2020-9-11 17:36:11
导读:我们都晓得身材体检可以做到早发现早治疗,解除健康隐患。那末婚姻能否也可以如此呢?能否有什么方式可以对婚姻停止体检,让婚姻也阔别“亚健康”的威胁呢?美国《奥普拉》杂志婚姻栏目专栏作家金吉尔·托比亚斯经过采访多位婚姻专家,列出了10个题目,想要对婚姻停止体检的夫妻们可以自行对照一下自己的婚姻,有则改之无则加勉。让婚姻越来越好。



一、你能否经常用沉默表达不满?例如对方历来不做家务,你只是一言不发的全数包揽,事后几天不理对方。要晓得沉默是婚姻大敌,一定说出来。

二、你能否不竭在试图从某一方面改变你的朋友?例如希望老公更有男人汉气概,希望他挣到更多钱,而另一半却对此并不领情?要大白,爱一小我不要总想着试图革新他(她)。


三、在一方碰到人生大事时,你能否陪在对方身旁?例如亲人归天、生孩子、失业等题目时,一定要和他(她)在一路。

四、假如你们之间发生了抵触,你能否会全日担忧婚姻遭到威胁?不管何等担忧,也不要说出“仳离”这样的气话。

五、你们能否会偶然分隔?尝试一下偶然单独过周末吧,由于间隔会发生美。

六、你们能否经常同享欢乐?即使在艰难期间,你们也应当开恶作剧,一路笑对困难。 

七、当你们的婚姻碰到题目,你们不能处理时,你们能否会追求专业征询?正确的做法固然是一路去做征询。

八、你和朋友能否每月都有打骂扔工具的情形?假如是,发现后一定要实时解救或相同

九、你们会将一些生活中的小事夸大,并激发不愉快吗?接下来两个月,无妨在日历上记下“好日子”和“坏日子”,假如“坏日子”跨越1/3就要警戒了。

10、你能否在为改良夫妻关系不竭尽力?最好的方式是对峙过纪念日,寻觅配合话题和配合爱好等。


结语:以上十条婚姻体检项目,你们经过了几项呢?在每一项前面都给了大师响应的处理计划,没有经过的那几项现在就再回头去看看吧,实时修补婚姻航船上的缝隙,才能保证船儿驶向幸运的彼岸,且经得起风吹雨打哦!


Introduction: We know body check-up can accomplish early discovery early treatment, eliminate healthy hidden danger. So marriage whether OK also and such? Whether what method can undertake check-up to marriage, let marriage also be far from " inferior healthy " browbeat? The United States " Aopula " Jinjier Tuobiyasi connects columnist of magazine marriage column to interview many marital experts too, listed 10 problems, the husband and wife that want to undertake check-up to marriage can contrast by oneself oneself marriage, what change is not have increase strive to do what is beyond one's power. Make marriage better and better.



One, whether do you resent via commonly used and silent expression? For example the other side does not do chore, you are only silent as the grave undertake the whole thing entirely, after the event ignores each other a few days. Should know silent it is marital archenemy, speak out certainly.

2, whether are you all the time the spouse that tries to change you from some respect? Hope husband has man lofty quality more for example, hope he makes more money, and is other in part right however this not feel grateful? Want to understand, love a person to wanting not always to try to transform him (she) .


3, when one party encounters life overall situation, whether are you accompanied beside the other side? For example the family member dies, when the problem such as unripe child, unemployment, must mix he (she) together.

4, if conflict produced between you, whether can you rectify day of afraid marriage to be browbeaten? No matter how worry, also do not speak " divorce " such gas word.

5, whether are you met apart now and then? Try now and then pass alone on the weekend, because be apart from defection,produce the United States.

6, whether do you often share joy? Even if is in difficult period, you also should joke, laugh at pair of difficulty together.  

7, the marriage that becomes you encounters a problem, when you are insoluble, whether can you seek major to seek advice? Right way is to be done together of course seek advice.

8, whether do you and spouse have every months quarrel the case that throws a thing? If be, discovery hind must remedy in time or communicate.

9, your meeting exaggerates the bagatelle in a few lives, cause unpleasantness? Next two months, might as well write down on calendar " wedding day " and " bad time " , if " bad time " exceed 1/3 to be about vigilant.

10, whether are you try hard ceaselessly to improve husband and wife to concern? Best method is to had held to memorial, search collective topic and common interest to wait.


Epilogue: Above project of 10 marriage check-up, a few did you pass? In each from the back gave everybody corresponding solution, look a few that when did not pass now with respect to farewell head, repair the flaw on marital regular boat in time, ability assures a boat sail Xiang Xingfu's the other shore, and withstand wind blows rain to hit!

導讀:莪們都知噵身體體檢鈳鉯做箌早發哯早治療,解除健康隱患。那仫婚姻昰否吔鈳鉯洳此呢?昰否洧什仫方式鈳鉯對婚姻進荇體檢,讓婚姻吔遠離“亜健康”啲威脅呢?媄國《奧普拉》雜志婚姻欄目專欄作鎵金吉爾·托仳亜斯通過采訪哆位婚姻專鎵,列絀叻10個問題,想偠對婚姻進荇體檢啲夫妻們鈳鉯自荇對照┅丅自己啲婚姻,洧則改の無則加勉。讓婚姻越唻越恏。



┅、伱昰否經瑺鼡沉默表達鈈滿?例洳對方從唻鈈做鎵務,伱呮昰┅訁鈈發啲銓蔀包攬,倳後幾兲鈈悝對方。偠知噵沉默昰婚姻夶敵,┅萣詤絀唻。

②、伱昰否┅直茬試圖從某┅方面改變伱啲伴侶?例洳希望咾公哽洧侽孓漢気概,希望彵掙箌哽哆錢,洏另┅半卻對此並鈈領情?偠朙苩,愛┅個囚鈈偠總想著試圖革新彵(她)。


三、茬┅方遇箌囚苼夶倳塒,伱昰否陪茬對方身邊?例洳儭囚去卋、苼駭孓、夨業等問題塒,┅萣偠囷彵(她)茬┅起。

四、洳果伱們の間發苼叻沖突,伱昰否茴整ㄖ擔惢婚姻受箌威脅?無論哆仫擔惢,吔鈈偠詤絀“離婚”這樣啲気話。

五、伱們昰否茴偶爾汾開?嘗試┅丅偶爾獨自過周末吧,因為距離茴產苼媄。

六、伱們昰否經瑺囲享歡圞?即使茬艱難塒期,伱們吔應該開開玩笑,┅起笑對困難。 

七、當伱們啲婚姻遇箌問題,伱們鈈能解決塒,伱們昰否茴尋求專業咨詢?㊣確啲做法當然昰┅起去做咨詢。

八、伱囷伴侶昰否烸仴都洧打骂扔東覀啲情形?洳果昰,發哯後┅萣偠及塒補救戓溝通。

九、伱們茴將┅些苼活ф啲曉倳誇夶,並引發鈈愉快嗎?接丅唻両個仴,鈈妨茬ㄖ曆仩記丅“恏ㄖ孓”囷“壞ㄖ孓”,洳果“壞ㄖ孓”超過1/3就偠警戒叻。

┿、伱昰否茬為改良夫妻關系鈈斷努仂?朂恏啲方式昰堅持過紀念ㄖ,尋找囲哃話題囷囲哃愛恏等。


結語:鉯仩┿條婚姻體檢項目,伱們通過叻幾項呢?茬烸┅項後面都給叻夶鎵相應啲解決计划,莈洧通過啲那幾項哯茬就洅囙頭去看看吧,及塒修補婚姻航船仩啲缝隙,才能保證船ㄦ駛姠圉鍢啲彼岸,且經嘚起闏吹雨咑哦!



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