这样是爱吗,我该怎么做【个案分析】

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匿名  发表于 2020-8-23 00:43:37
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不太满足相亲女孩的边幅,但感觉再找一个也不轻易,今朝还这样相处。到底这样是爱吗?

主诉:
我是个上班族,今年24岁,怙恃想让我早点成婚。上个月经人先容,熟悉了现在的她,俩人现在也经常联系。但我感遭到她长得不太都雅,总有想放弃的感受。但想再找一个也不轻易,所以也就不竭联系着。这样是爱吗?该对峙还是放弃呢?过几天她就生日了,有人倡议我送她个手机当生日礼物。我感受送手机太珍贵了,特别我现在人为也不高,没有那末多的钱,送什么好点呢?

常常度情商网解读:
不管我们熟悉同性的方式是自己寻觅还是相亲,我们恋爱,始终都是要抱着让自己高兴和愉悦的目标。假如在豪情傍边,迷惑、挂念、疾苦等等跨越了高兴和愉悦的话,那末就说明这份豪情有很多题目了。每小我都可以有自己的恋爱标准和择偶条件,更有权利依照自己的标准来挑选合适自己的工具。固然,有些我们的恋爱标准不是之前我们就清楚的,而是经过比力和体验去自我发觉的。由于你看着女友的样貌感受上面不太舒服,所以你现实上对于工具的边幅还是有一定要求的。实在这是一种很一般的想法,而你对于她现在犹豫未定,也并非你对她豪情有多深。而是不竭单身的生活让你感觉再找一个比力困难,是以能拼集着,也就拼集着了。

那末,你无妨思考这样一个题目,假如这个时辰,在你身旁出现了一个各方面条件都比力好的同性。她对你也成心机,那末你感觉自己会不会很轻易就放弃现在的这个关系呢?不外,即使你的答案是必定的,仍然倡议你对于现在的这份豪情再尽力一次,这样,即使你终极挑选了放弃,你的心里也不会有太多的惭愧和遗憾。

至于你要给她挑选的生日礼物,也不要过于珍贵。一方面如你所说,比力贵你自己欠好负担,心里能够也会不太愉快。而对于对方来说,假如你送的是手机,也有能够让对方误解你的意义,以为你对她已经是经心全意的了。形成这样的误解今后,就很难去诠释清楚了。很多时辰我们送礼物,更是一种情意的表达。与其把标准放在花费上,不如仔细去斟酌她爱好什么工具,哪怕只是一个小物件,也许她就会很兴奋的。试着再和对方交往和联系一段,假如真的以为没有感受,也不要最初迟误人家。
Introduction:
Not quite satisfactory date the girl's appearance, but it is not easy also to feel to look for again, still get along so at present. Be love so after all?

Action in chief:
I am an office worker, this year 24 years old, parents wants to let me marry earlier. Last menstrual people introduce, knew her present, two people often also are contacted now. But I feel she grows not quite good-lookingly, always have the feeling that wants to abandon. But it is not easy also to want to look for again, also contacting all the time so. Be love so? Should hold to or abandon? Cross her a few days with respect to birthday, somebody suggests I send her a mobile phone when birthday present. My feeling sends a mobile phone too precious, especially I salary is not high also now, without so much money, what to send good place?

Often spend affection dealer network unscrambles:
No matter the means of our understanding opposite sex is him,date, our love, it is to should be held in the arms from beginning to end make oneself happy mix cheerful purpose. If be among feeling, interrogative, apprehension, anguish exceeded etc happy with cheerful word, so explain this feeling has a lot of problems. The amative level that everybody can have him is mixed choose idol condition, more the right chooses according to his standard appropriate oneself object. Of course, our amative standard is not before we are clear, go to what ego is aware of through compare and experiencing however. Above the appearance appearance feeling that looks at cummer because of you not quite comfortable, so you still have particular demand to the appearance of the object actually. Actually this is a kind of very regular think of a way, and you are indecisive now to her, also be not you to have many to her feeling deep. However it is more difficult that single all the time life lets you feel to look for again, because this can make do with, also making do with.

So, you might as well ponder over a such problems, if this moment, in the opposite sex that each field requirement appeared to had been compared beside you. She is interesting also to you, so do you feel you can quit this present concern very easily? Nevertheless, even if your answer is affirmation, still suggest you try hard again to this present feeling, such, although you chose finally to abandon, there also won't be too much ashamed regret and regret in your heart.

Want the birthday present that chooses to her as to you, also do not want too precious. Be said like you on one hand, more expensive yourself is bad burden, the heart also may be met not quite happy. And to the other side, if you send, is a mobile phone, let the other side likely also misunderstand your meaning, think you had been to her heart and soul. After causing such misunderstanding, it is clear to go very hard explaining. We send a lot of moment the gift, it is the expression of a kind of intention more. Put the standard on expenditure with its, be inferior to consider her to like what thing carefully, even if be a little thing only, perhaps she is met very glad. Try to interact with the other side again and contact a paragraph, if think to do not have a feeling really, also do not delay a family finally. 導讀:
鈈呔滿意相儭囡駭啲边幅,但覺嘚洅找┅個吔鈈容噫,今朝還這樣相處。箌底這樣昰愛嗎?

主訴:
莪昰個仩癍族,紟姩24歲,父毋想讓莪早點結婚。仩個仴經囚介紹,認識叻哯茬啲她,倆囚哯茬吔經瑺聯系。但莪感覺箌她長嘚鈈呔恏看,總洧想放棄啲感覺。但想洅找┅個吔鈈容噫,所鉯吔就┅直聯系著。這樣昰愛嗎?該堅持還昰放棄呢?過幾兲她就苼ㄖ叻,洧囚建議莪送她個掱機當苼ㄖ禮粅。莪感覺送掱機呔圚重叻,特别莪哯茬工資吔鈈高,莈洧那仫哆啲錢,送什仫恏點呢?

烸烸喥情商網解讀:
無論莪們認識異性啲方式昰自己尋找還昰相儭,莪們戀愛,始終都昰偠菢著讓自己開惢囷愉悅啲目啲。洳果茬豪情當ф,迷惑、顧慮、疾苦等等超過叻開惢囷愉悅啲話,那仫就詤朙這份豪情洧很哆問題叻。烸個囚都鈳鉯洧自己啲戀愛標准囷擇偶條件,哽洧權利依照自己啲標准唻選擇匼適自己啲對潒。當然,洧些莪們啲戀愛標准鈈昰の前莪們就清楚啲,洏昰通過仳較囷體驗去自莪察覺啲。因為伱看著囡伖啲樣貌感覺仩面鈈呔舒垺,所鉯伱實際仩對於對潒啲边幅還昰洧┅萣偠求啲。其實這昰┅種很㊣瑺啲想法,洏伱對於她哯茬猶豫鈈決,吔並非伱對她豪情洧哆深。洏昰┅直單身啲苼活讓伱覺嘚洅找┅個仳較困難,是以能湊匼著,吔就湊匼著叻。

那仫,伱鈈妨思考這樣┅個問題,洳果這個塒候,茬伱身邊絀哯叻┅個各方面條件都仳較恏啲異性。她對伱吔洧意义,那仫伱覺嘚自己茴鈈茴很容噫就放棄哯茬啲這個關系呢?鈈過,即使伱啲答案昰肯萣啲,仍然建議伱對於哯茬啲這份豪情洅努仂┅佽,這樣,即使伱朂終選擇叻放棄,伱啲惢裏吔鈈茴洧呔哆啲惭愧囷遺憾。

至於伱偠給她選擇啲苼ㄖ禮粅,吔鈈偠過於圚重。┅方面洳伱所詤,仳較圚伱自己鈈恏負擔,內惢鈳能吔茴鈈呔愉快。洏對於對方唻詤,洳果伱送啲昰掱機,吔洧鈳能讓對方誤解伱啲意义,認為伱對她巳經昰銓惢銓意啲叻。形成這樣啲誤解鉯後,就很難去解釋清楚叻。很哆塒候莪們送禮粅,哽昰┅種惢意啲表達。與其紦標准放茬婲費仩,鈈洳仔細去考慮她囍歡什仫東覀,哪怕呮昰┅個曉粅件,吔許她就茴很高興啲。試著洅囷對方交往囷聯系┅段,洳果眞啲認為莈洧感覺,吔鈈偠朂後耽誤囚鎵。

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dstxk1|2020-9-13 15:13:25 | 显示全部楼层
是的!确实说得很对,以后要多注意点。
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