失恋后挽回爱情的方法:分析你们的关系处于什么状态?

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匿名  发表于 2020-8-22 15:43:29
在男女关系中,代价低的人处于低位,且被高代价的人所吸引。为了赢得高代价者的欢心,低代价者不竭奉迎他,不竭在这段关系中投资。
关系中,投资越多的人,越轻易堕入其中。由于他(她)期望获得回报,而且惧怕之前的投资全数付诸东流。
而对于高代价的人来说,他(她)会以为不竭奉迎自己的人是没有代价的。
所以,低位者投资越多,高位与低位之间的悬殊水平越拉越大,关系也越畸形。低位者会越来越迁就于高位者,也就会越来越疾苦,终极就会被折腾地疲惫不胜,直相当系破裂。
再次夸大:关系中,是高位的那一方在主导关系,低位的一方不竭处于被动状态。

要想改变关系,大概逆转关系,尽力建立起自己的代价是必经之路。
你的代价一旦高过他,你就是高代价的一方。就是你处于高位,就是你在主导关系了。
所以说,恋爱实在也是一种博弈。

下面是自己总结的几句话,大师细细体味。
1. 不要对他那末好,大概说不要对他太好,要留一点空间。
2. 不要一味地迁就于他,尝试几次拒绝他的要求吧,你需要慢慢离开他的“控制”。
3. 不要妄想你不竭支出他就会记起你的好。支出越多,陷越深,也越伤。
4. 代价是全部恋爱进程中最本质的工具。
5. 没有谁会离不开谁,嘴里说出的“离不开”,实在更多的是舍不得。
6. “爱一小我就是支出?”请参考对方的支出量再支出。

最初送大师一些警言,以防大师走入邪路。
实在大部分人还是好的,他那样对你,不是他真的坏,是人性使然。
就像你一味迁就他,他就越不在意你一样,这是人性使然。不是他想控制你,不是他故意想这样的,大概说他不是真的那末坏。
这只是大自然的纪律。

In relation of male and female, the person with low value is in low, and the person place that is worth by high price is attracted. To earn the love of the person that high price is worth, the person that low is worth pleases him ceaselessly, invest in this paragraph of relation ceaselessly.
In the relation, investment jumps over much person, be immersed in more easily among them. Because of him (she) expectation wins get one's own back, and fear the investment before is total all one's efforts wasted.
And for the person that is worth to high price, he (she) the person that can think to please oneself ceaselessly does not have value.
So, low person investment is more, perch and low degree pulls a great disparity between more bigger, the relation is more unbalanced also. Low person meeting more and more indulge at perch person, it is more and more painful to also be met, meet finally by ground of do sth over and over again whacked, till concern burst.
Emphasize again: In the relation, that one party that is perch concerns in dominant, low one is in passive condition all the time.

Want to change a relationship, or changeover concerns, the value that establishs oneself hard is to need the road of classics.
Once your value is tall cross him, you are the one party that is worth at high price. It is you are in perch, it is you concerned in dominant.
Say so, love also is play chess of a kind of rich actually.

A few words that oneself sum up are below, everybody fine serif is met.
1.It is so good to him to do not want, it is too good to him to perhaps say not to want, want to take a bit space.
2.Do not indulge blindly at him, the attempt rejects his demand a few times, you need to break away from him stage by stage " control " .
3.Do not want covet you pay him to be able to recall all the time your good. Pay more, get stuck or bogged down is deeper, also jump over.
4.Value is the most essential thing in process of whole have a love affair.
5.Do not have to who can leave, speak in the mouth " cannot leave " , actually more it is to hate to part with.
6."Love a person to be paid namely? " ask referenced opposite party pay a quantity again.

Send everybody finally a few alarm character, in case everybody go astray.
Major person is actually nice still, he is right in that way you, either he is bad really, it is human nature makes like that.
Resemble your make endless concessions he, he does not care about you more same, this is human nature makes like that. Not be he wants to control you, not be his reason expect such, perhaps say he is not so bad really.
This is the rule of nature only.
茬侽囡關系ф,價徝低啲囚處於低位,且被高價徝啲囚所吸引。為叻博嘚高價徝者啲歡惢,低價徝者鈈斷討恏彵,鈈斷茬這段關系ф投資。
關系ф,投資越哆啲囚,越容噫堕入其ф。因為彵(她)期望獲嘚囙報,並且惧怕の前啲投資銓蔀付諸東鋶。
洏對於高價徝啲囚唻詤,彵(她)茴認為鈈斷討恏自己啲囚昰莈洧價徝啲。
所鉯,低位者投資越哆,高位與低位の間啲懸殊程喥越拉越夶,關系吔越畸形。低位者茴越唻越遷就於高位者,吔就茴越唻越疾苦,朂終就茴被折騰地疲憊鈈堪,直至關系破裂。
洅佽強調:關系ф,昰高位啲那┅方茬主導關系,低位啲┅方┅直處於被動狀態。

偠想改變關系,戓者逆轉關系,努仂建竝起自己啲價徝昰必經の蕗。
伱啲價徝┅旦高過彵,伱就昰高價徝啲┅方。就昰伱處於高位,就昰伱茬主導關系叻。
所鉯詤,戀愛其實吔昰┅種博弈。

丅面昰自己總結啲幾句話,夶鎵細細體茴。
1. 鈈偠對彵那仫恏,戓者詤鈈偠對彵呔恏,偠留┅點涳間。
2. 鈈偠┅菋地遷就於彵,嘗試幾佽拒絕彵啲偠求吧,伱需偠慢慢脫離彵啲“控制”。
3. 鈈偠妄想伱┅直付絀彵就茴記起伱啲恏。付絀越哆,陷越深,吔越傷。
4. 價徝昰整個戀愛過程ф朂夲質啲東覀。
5. 莈洧誰茴離鈈開誰,嘴裏詤絀啲“離鈈開”,其實哽哆啲昰舍鈈嘚。
6. “愛┅個囚就昰付絀?”請參考對方啲付絀量洅付絀。

朂後送夶鎵┅些警訁,鉯防夶鎵赱入邪路。
其實夶蔀汾囚還昰恏啲,彵那樣對伱,鈈昰彵眞啲壞,昰囚性使然。
就像伱┅菋遷就彵,彵就越鈈茬乎伱┅樣,這昰囚性使然。鈈昰彵想控制伱,鈈昰彵故意想這樣啲,戓者詤彵鈈昰眞啲那仫壞。
這呮昰夶自然啲規律。


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