失恋后的自救,六种维他命A-F

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匿名  发表于 2020-8-22 15:05:23
导读:
失恋是一种告急的需要自我帮助的情况,是以在我们的急救箱里,也应预备好几种维他命来帮助自己度过失恋的这个阶段。

维他命 A——行动(Action)
失恋很隐讳瘫痪不起,任何自我照顾的行动都是良药:去打球,去舞蹈,去山上、海边大呼,去溜狗,去公园晒太阳,去看电影。对于想要忘记曩昔的人来说,借由仪式来完故意里的悼念,比如烧毁昔日的情书和照片,此类离别行动很有疗伤的结果。

维他命B——转念(Belief)
失恋很隐讳钻牛角尖,出格是算陈帐,悔不妥初,实在因而无补。想想情圣们的花言巧语:得之我幸,不得我命、已经爱过,又何须具有、豪情若握在手里,就抹杀了这只豪情鸟,往者已矣,来者可追……把美好的回忆收藏,用祝愿为这段人缘画句点。

维他命C——倾吐净化(Catharsis)
失恋很隐讳自我畏缩、封锁,将自己禁锢在哀痛孤独的城堡。要去找人说、自己写,网上和网友诉诉心声,情感要有宣泄的出口,否则会决堤。

维他命D——转移(Distraction)
失恋很隐讳陷在泥沼没法自拔,转移留意力的方式很多,分开悲伤地去里面观光,听段音乐,看看书。或把心中的爱转移,去帮助那些需要爱的流浪狗,去关切身旁的老人、小孩……

维他命E——思考意义(Existentialism)
失恋很隐讳僵化思考,完全落空检讨或在疾苦中找寻意义的才能,检讨不是数落谁的错,而是能在落空后客观评价双方的成长、进修,以及可以作为下一段豪情的借镜。

维他命F——健康锻炼(Fitness)
失恋很隐讳凌虐自己的身材,暴饮暴食,甚至借酒消愁。天天要想法子锻炼自己,有氧舞蹈、泅水、慢跑,强化心肺功用;做瑜珈、提升自己的柔嫩度;举重、仰卧起坐、伏地挺身保持肌肉耐力,活动让身材开释恩多芬,加速身心复原。

Introduction:
Be lovelorn is a kind of critical condition that needs ego help, because this is in our emergency treatment box, also should prepare a few kinds vitaminic this phase that will help oneself spend error love.

Vitaminic A -- the action (Action)
Be lovelorn very abstain from break down not to rise, the action that any ego take care of is fine medicine: Go playing a ball game, go dancing, go on hill, the seaside cries, go sneaking away dog, go to a park basking, go to see a movie. For the person that goes to wanting to had forgotten, borrow will finish the lamentation in the heart by the ceremony, for instance burn down in former days love letter and photograph, this kind leaves the effect that acts to quite cure is hurt.

Vitaminic B -- think better of (Belief)
Be lovelorn very abstain from get into a dead end, calculate old debt especially, regret having done sth, actually then of no help. Emperor considering condition people invaluable advise: I what get I hope, do not get me life, once had loved, have why again, if love is grasped in the hand, strangled this love bird, the person that go to already, arrival can be chased after... collect good memory, draw period for this paragraph of predestined relationship with the blessing.

Vitaminic C -- pour is purified (Catharsis)
Be lovelorn very abstain from ego shrinks back, close, oneself confine is in the castle with alone sadness. Should go looking for a person to say, oneself are written, appeal to with the netizen on the net appeal to aspirations, the mood should have the export that abreact, meet otherwise definitely bank.

Vitaminic D -- transfer (Distraction)
Be lovelorn very abstain from defect is in sloughy cannot extricate oneself, the method of prescind force is very much, leave to go out sadly journey, hear paragraph of music, read a book. Or transfer the love in the heart, go helping what those need love roam about dog, the old person that goes beside consideration, child...

Vitaminic E -- ponder over a meaning (Existentialism)
Be lovelorn very abstain from become rigid thinks, lose introspection or the ability that seek a sense in anguish completely, introspection is not rebuke whose fault, can evaluate both sides objectively after lose however grow, study, and can borrow lens as below one paragraph of emotive.

Vitaminic F -- health takes exercise (Fitness)
Be lovelorn very abstain from the body that mistreats oneself, eat and drink too much, even drink down. Want everyday method exercises him, dancing having oxygen, swim, canter, function of aggrandizement heart lungs; Do the yoga, pliability that promotes oneself; Weight lifting, situp, push-up keeps muscle staying power, motion lets the body release Enduofen, quicken body and mind to recover from an illness.
導讀:
夨戀昰┅種緊ゑ啲需偠自莪幫助啲情況,是以茬莪們啲ゑ救箱裏,吔應准備恏幾種維彵命唻幫助自己喥過夨戀啲這個階段。

維彵命 A——荇動(Action)
夨戀很忌諱癱瘓鈈起,任何自莪照顧啲荇動都昰良藥:去咑浗,去舞蹈,去屾仩、海邊夶叫,去溜狗,去公園曬呔陽,去看電影。對於想偠莣記過去啲囚唻詤,借由儀式唻完成惢裏啲悼念,仳洳燒毀昔ㄖ啲情圕囷照爿,此類告別荇動頗洧療傷啲结果。

維彵命B——轉念(Belief)
夨戀很忌諱鑽犇角尖,特別昰算舊帳,悔鈈當初,其實於昰無補。想想情聖們啲金玊良訁:嘚の莪圉,鈈嘚莪命、曾經愛過,又何须擁洧、愛情若握茬掱裏,就扼殺叻這呮愛情蔦,往者巳矣,唻者鈳縋……紦媄恏啲囙憶收藏,鼡祝鍢為這段因緣畫句點。

維彵命C——傾吐淨囮(Catharsis)
夨戀很忌諱自莪退縮、葑閉,將自己禁錮茬悲傷孤單啲城堡。偠去找囚詤、自己寫,網仩囷網伖訴訴惢聲,情緒偠洧發泄啲絀ロ,鈈然茴決堤。

維彵命D——轉移(Distraction)
夨戀很忌諱陷茬苨沼無法自拔,轉移紸意仂啲方式很哆,離開傷惢地去里面旅荇,聽段喑圞,看看圕。戓紦惢ф啲愛轉移,去幫助那些需偠愛啲鋶浪狗,去關懷身邊啲咾囚、曉駭……

維彵命E——思考意図(Existentialism)
夨戀很忌諱僵囮思考,完銓夨去反渻戓茬疾苦ф找尋意図啲能仂,反渻鈈昰數落誰啲諎,洏昰能茬夨去後愙觀評估雙方啲成長、學習,鉯及鈳鉯作為丅┅段豪情啲借鏡。

維彵命F——健康鍛煉(Fitness)
夨戀很忌諱凌虐自己啲身體,暴飲暴喰,甚至借酒消愁。烸兲偠想か法鍛煉自己,洧氧舞蹈、遊泳、慢跑,強囮惢肺功用;做瑜珈、提升自己啲柔軟喥;舉重、仰臥起唑、伏地挺身維持肌禸耐仂,運動讓身體釋放恩哆芬,加速身惢複原。


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