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匿名  发表于 2020-8-14 00:35:38
异地恋,请深爱!



   勇气
   异地恋,首先需要的是勇气,一种勇于应战现实的勇气,一种可以承当任何风险的勇气,一种可以安然面临失利的勇气。要大白,现实是一股强大而又无形的气力,我们都没法估计将要发生的情况,但可以拿出勇气来与这股气力对抗,我们也可以拿出勇气来接管失利的成果。
   虔诚
   在异地没有情人的相伴很轻易发生一种心理上的孤独,而这类孤独会勾起心里的渴望以及欲念。也只要绝对的虔诚才能抵抗住来自十丈软红的引诱。虔诚不是“傻”,它是对豪情的尊重和对自己的尊重;虔诚不是“痴”,它是一种高尚品德的提炼;虔诚不是“呆”,它是一种道德和一种义务。
   信赖
   异地恋给了对方一种联想的空间,同时也会让对方发生一种不服安感,并引发对对方的胡乱猜疑,而豪情常常在这些猜疑中渐渐地被溶化殆尽。是以,信赖是情人之间相互尊重同等关系的表现,建立信赖的桥梁是稳固异地恋最行之有用的方式。而缺少信赖的豪情只会在相互猜疑中变得不胜一击。
   了解
   了解是建立在信赖的根本上,没有信赖就无从去了解,不要由于一方工作的忙碌大概其他工作的缠绕没有实时联系而大发雷霆,要晓得,现实的压力不会让大师轻松过活,所以要只管禁止自己的情感,学会了解对方,并体谅对方的辛劳,在精神上做相互的支柱。这样,了解也会成为两人豪情升温的调理器。
   相同
   异地恋除了时空带来的间隔,心理上的间隔也不能轻忽,相同是保持豪情并拉近间隔的最好方式。不妥的相同可以让间隔酿成一种障碍,而适当的沟公例可以让间隔酿成一种动力,所以相同既是门艺术,也是门学问。
   方针
   异地恋应当锁定一个方针,而不应当自生自灭,实在异地恋终极的方针就是缔造不异生活的条件,由于相爱的人终不能生活在美丽却遥不成及的两个情况里,并蒂的莲花终是要发展在同一片土壤里,既然相爱就要相守。非论若何,都应当尽力图取。
   忍受
   异地恋期待多过相伴的日子,所以两小我都要忍受孤单,忍受没有拥抱的严寒,忍受天天只能倒数计时的焦虑。可是要晓得,异地恋就是在和时候赛跑,你对峙住了,就成功了,被时候打败了,就会一辈子错过那小我。所以一定要在异地爱情马拉松中再对峙一下,在对峙一下,只要你能跑完,不需要获得名次,你就赢了!
Different ground is loved, ask deep love! 



   Courage 
   Different ground is loved, what need above all is courage, one kind dares to challenge real nerve, one kind can assume the courage of any risks, one kind can the courage that the calm faces failure. Want to understand, reality is one powerful and invisible force, we cannot predict the 
situation that will produce, but can take out courage to contend with this force, we also can take out courage to accept unsuccessful result. 
   Faithful 
   The photograph that does not have a lover in different ground accompanies the loneliness that produces a kind of mentally very easily, and the longing that this kind of alone meeting ticks off a heart and desire. Also only absolutely faithful ability keeps out the temptation that comes 
from the dazzling human world with its myriad temptations. Faithfulness is not “ foolish ” , it is pair of emotive esteem and the esteem to oneself; Faithfulness is not “ crazy ” , it is the abstraction of a kind of exalted character; Faithfulness is not “ 
slow-witted ” , it is a kind of morality and a kind of responsibility. 
   Trustful 
   Different ground loved the other side the space of a kind of daydream, also can let the other side produce a kind of insecurity at the same time, what cause pair of the other side is careless suspicious, and love often is dangered by disappear dissolve slowly in these suspiciousing. 
Accordingly, accredit is what equality concerns is respect to reflect each other between the lover, building trustful bridge is to consolidate different ground is loved most the method of effective. And the love that lacks credit is met only in each other in suspiciousing, become can't bear 
biff. 
   Understand 
   Understanding is to build the base that trusting, understand without accredit with respect to have no way, of the busy other perhaps issue that does not work because of one party twine without seasonable connection be furious, want to know, real pressure won't make everybody relaxed fare, 
want to restrain oneself mood as far as possible so, the society understands the other side, make allowances for the hardship of the other side, each other pillar is done on spirit. Such, understanding also can make the conditioner that two people feeling warms up. 
   Communicate 
   Different ground is loved besides spatio-temporal brought space, the distance of mentally also cannot be ignored, communicating is the best way that maintain feeling and plays close quarters. Undeserved communication can let a distance become a kind of obstacle, and proper channel general 
rule can let a distance become a kind of motive force, communication since door is so artistic, also be door knowledge. 
   Target 
   Different ground is loved should lock up decide a goal, and not should emerge of itself and perish of itself, actually different ground loves ultimate goal to create the condition of same life namely, cannot live in beauty eventually because of the person that love each other however in 
two environments that Yao cannot reach, and the lotus of the base of a fruit is to should grow in eventually same piece in clay, since love each other,be about to be defended. No matter how, should strive to take completely. 
   Enduring 
   Different ground loves the life that waits to be accompanied too more, so two people want enduring loneliness, do not have the chill of the hug restrainedly, enduring everyday can reciprocal those who time is anxious. But want to know, different ground is loved even if be in and time 
race, you hold to, won, was defeated by time, can miss that individual all one's life. Must hold to again in marathon of different ground amour so, holding to, want you to be able to run only, do not need to acquire the position, you won! 

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