女友觉得我不够好,我还能挽回她吗?

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匿名  发表于 2020-7-30 21:42:20


题目描写:头几天跟前女友聊起她挑选与我分隔的缘由。本来都是我所检讨到的,她说最大缘由我不晓得她的沉默,她沉默是不想由于打骂影响豪情,(我当初总是不停的问她怎样了,很冲突,既疼爱又火气大)还有一点春节时辰去她家过年,她说她怙恃对我失望,我感觉是人情圆滑方面的题目。比如去她家过年我没有听她的话带一套衣服,在她家没有自动做家务。这几点我确切是疏忽了,是我没有感遭到她们家对于这些的重视,可我并不是个思惟刚强的人啊。在我看来这些我都可以去做,可假如她们就以这个工作判我死刑我好不宁愿。我不竭感觉前女友是受她怙恃影响才渐渐的对我豪情变淡的。我会在对自己说她由于不爱了才挑选放弃,只要这样我才能压服自己。这4个多月我检讨了2年的相处,我对她很惭愧,总感受自己欠她的。明晓得回到曩昔很迷茫,可总想重新好好的爱她,抵偿她。我冲突的是:我怕自己受不了期待的疾苦。但假如不放下她我的心又没法接管其他人。所以我纠结于感性与理性之间的疾苦,4个月了。没有睡好过几天。描写的很乱,希望教员能帮帮我。她现在有新欢。


回答:你好!汉子理想的感情生活和女人不太一样,女人以为理想的感情生活是浪漫的,布满温馨和欣喜的,而汉子理想的感情生活就是可以放空脑子放松心情,所以说从底子上说,男女的理想感情生活是冲突的。你和男友之间的感情生活正是如此,不是你们不相爱,而是你们相互所期望的有差别,这样发生了冲突,同时,在这段豪情中你是有些小作的,男友并不是你,你不说出自己心里的感受,总是让他去猜,那末他会感觉在这段豪情中相当的累,他不知你想要些什么?相同处理感情题目最有用的方式,你们之间的相同太少,致使冲突慢慢放大。我以为你要改变之前的认知形式,领会相互之间的差别,同时学会相同,复合的机遇还是很大的。


Problem description: A few days ago in front of the reason that cummer has her to choose to part with me a little. So I am meditated, she says the biggest reason what I do not know her is silent, she is silent it is to because quarrel,do not want to affect feeling, (I always ask her ceaselessly at the outset how, very contradictory, feel distressed already anger is great) still moment of a bit Spring Festival goes to her home spending the New Year, she says her parents is disappointed to me, I feel is the problem of respect of the way of the world. Go to her home spending the New Year for instance a clothes is taken if I did not listen to her, in her the home did not do chore actively. This when I am unwary really, it is I did not feel their home to take seriously to these, but I am not the person with an obstinate thought. Look in me these I can be done, but if they sentence my capital punishment with this thing I am good not reconciled to. The cummer before I feel all the time is to suffer her parents to affect ability slowly to me emotion becomes weak. Because did not love to just choose to abandon,I am saying her to oneself, only such my ability persuade him. 4 this many months I meditated 2 years get along, I am right she very ashamed remorses, total him feeling owes her. Know perfectly well return the past very vague, always can think afresh well love her, compensate her. Is what I contradict: ? Human relations of involuntary discharge of urine makes an appointment with He to exemplary melt say however  is able to bear or endure pure yo course of study of  of filter of bank of link of  of 5  Quan male flinch the ń that treat a kind of sedge mails  of K of excuse me of Zhi Lu  Lai of  of calamity of Nao of miscellaneous Rong of shaming travel of the dizzy Sheng that bow with hands clasped to billows is able to bear or endure pure Bo? month. Did not sleep feel well a few days. Of the description very random, hope teacher can help me. She has a new sweetheart now.


Reply: Hello! The affection life of man ideal and woman are not quite same, the woman thinks good affection life is romantic, be full of warmth and surprise, and the affection of man ideal lives even if can put empty brain to loosen the mood, say so from go up at all say, good feeling life of the men and women is contradictory. The affection between you and male friend gives birth to vivid absolutely, not be you do not love each other, however you what each other expect have difference, produced contradiction so, in the meantime, in this paragraph of feeling you are a little small those who make, male friend is not you, you do not say those who give him heart to experience, always let him guess, so what he can feel to comparative in this paragraph of feeling is tired, what doesn't he know you to want? Communicating is to settle the way with affection the most active issue, the communication between you is too little, cause contradictory and progressively enlarge. I think you want to change the cognitive pattern previously, know the difference between each other, learn to communicate at the same time, compound opportunity is very great still.

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