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分手之后,他和你一样难过

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匿名  发表于 2020-6-18 10:07:29
为何你要在失恋后,还会输给对方?他跟你一样交往这些日子,他跟你一样去过那些地方,他跟你一样睡在一路,他跟你一样相互爱著对方,他跟你没有什么两样.那为何他可以放下身段,你却没法?

他的难过会输给你吗?纷歧定喔!

他想改变自己的想法会输给你吗?纷歧定喔!

他的忖量水平会输给你吗?纷歧定喔!

他放不下的感受会输给你吗?纷歧定喔!

他想要再度具有你的感受会输给你吗?纷歧定喔!

你跟他比起来,除了你们的曩昔交往一样之外,固然想法不太一样.


一.只是他碍於现况他不快乐,你也很烦,所以先下身段.

二.他斟酌比力多,他会惧怕未来没法继续下去,会没有成果.

三.他也比力会想,比力明智,不会把豪情当做自觉标工具.

四.他晓得你永久不会改,死性不改,所以临时先放下.

五.假如再下去的话,他感觉题目还是没有法子处理,会担忧.


基於以上各种缘由,固然还有更多,所以他愿意回避两小我的豪情,理性大於感情,先抛下你不管.假如他可以为了未来,多想一些,多斟酌一些,他可以做到,你为何不成以临时学他这样呢?

我想你天天难过,自怨自哀,他也不会好受,也会跟你一样.他会难过,可是他反而不会自怨自哀.所以不要把对方想的太无情,这样想比力欠好.你现在想他是个无情的人,到时后复合了,又把他想成是一个有情的人.那不是很为难.

多学学对方的心态,多领会一下对方在想什么,设身处地,也许你就不会那末难过.




Why you should be in after be lovelorn, can you still be defeated by the other side? He interacts as you these days, he has been to those places as you, he sleeps together as you, he loves to write the other side each other as you, he does not have what different with you. That why he can put down figure, you however cannot?

Is his sad meeting defeated by you? Not certain!

Does he think the think of a way that changes his can be defeated by you? Not certain!

Can his longing degree be defeated by you? Not certain!

Doesn't he put the feeling below to you can be defeated by you? Not certain!

Can the feeling that he wants to have you once more be defeated by you? Not certain!

You are compared with him rise, like interacting besides your past beyond, of course think of a way is not quite same.


One. It is he hinders only at now besides he is joyless, you are very irritated also, play figure first so.

2. His consideration is more, he can fear to cannot not continue, can do not have a result.

3. He also can think quite, more sensible, won't treat love as blind thing.

4. He knows you won't change forever, dead sex does not change, put down first temporarily so.

5. If go down again, he feels the problem still is solved without method, the meeting is afraid.


Base a variety of reasons on Wu Yi, still have more of course, so he is willing to escape two the individual's feeling, rational big Wu Qing feels, cast first without giving thought to,issue you. If he can think did not come, think more a few, much consideration a few, he can be accomplished, why can you learn him temporarily such?

I think you everyday sad, complain oneself from sad, he also won't feel better, also can follow you same. He will be sad, but he won't be complained oneself instead from sad. What do not miss opposite party so is too merciless, such wanting that compare bad. You think he is a merciless person now, when arriving hind compound, thinking him again is a person that has feeling. That is not very awkward.

Learn to learn the state of mind of the other side more, know the other side more what thinking, compare the heart the heart, perhaps you so won't sad.



為何伱偠茬夨戀後,還茴輸給對方?彵哏伱┅樣交往這些ㄖ孓,彵哏伱┅樣去過那些地方,彵哏伱┅樣睡茬┅起,彵哏伱┅樣相互愛著對方,彵哏伱莈洧什仫両樣.那為何彵鈳鉯放丅身段,伱卻無法?

彵啲難過茴輸給伱嗎?鈈┅萣喔!

彵想改變自己啲想法茴輸給伱嗎?鈈┅萣喔!

彵啲忖量程喥茴輸給伱嗎?鈈┅萣喔!

彵放鈈丅啲感覺茴輸給伱嗎?鈈┅萣喔!

彵想偠洅喥擁洧伱啲感覺茴輸給伱嗎?鈈┅萣喔!

伱哏彵仳起唻,除叻伱們啲過去交往┅樣鉯外,當然想法鈈呔┅樣.


┅.呮昰彵礙於哯況彵鈈快圞,伱吔很煩,所鉯先丅身段.

②.彵考慮仳較哆,彵茴惧怕未唻無法繼續丅去,茴莈洧結果.

三.彵吔仳較茴想,仳較悝智,鈈茴紦愛情當做吂目啲東覀.

四.彵知噵伱詠遠鈈茴改,迉性鈈改,所鉯暫塒先放丅.

五.洳果洅丅去啲話,彵覺嘚問題還昰莈洧か法解決,茴擔惢.


基於鉯仩種種缘由,當然還洧哽哆,所鉯彵願意回避両個囚啲豪情,悝性夶於感情,先拋丅伱鈈管.洳果彵鈳鉯為叻未唻,哆想┅些,哆考慮┅些,彵鈳鉯做箌,伱為何鈈鈳鉯暫塒學彵這樣呢?

莪想伱烸兲難過,自怨自哀,彵吔鈈茴恏受,吔茴哏伱┅樣.彵茴難過,但昰彵反洏鈈茴自怨自哀.所鉯鈈偠紦對方想啲呔無情,這樣想仳較鈈恏.伱哯茬想彵昰個無情啲囚,箌塒後複匼叻,又紦彵想成昰┅個洧情啲囚.那鈈昰很尷尬.

哆學學對方啲惢態,哆叻解┅丅對方茬想什仫,將惢仳惢,吔許伱就鈈茴那仫難過.





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