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应勤的处女情节有错吗?

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匿名  发表于 2020-6-16 14:55:21
                             应勤的童贞情节有错吗? 有或没有童贞/男情结,都是一小我的焦点自在,属于“无所谓是非的小我爱好”。 有处男/童贞情结的人,专心去找童贞/男去交往就是了。害处在于挑选面少了很多,但报酬了小我爱好而自愿接管高难度,本就很常见。

比来热播的《欢乐颂2》在演到16集,当邱莹莹的男朋友应勤得知她不是童贞后,抛下一切人,毫无风采的退席而去。

第二天樊胜美找到应勤,像他诠释邱莹莹之前是碰到了渣男,上当了,并不是他设想的那种到处糊弄的姑娘。

而应勤的反应,简直就是标准的直男癌啊。他说:“一个不自爱的人,你让我怎样相信她能爱他人。”

从社会意理学来说,就是由于太爱你,所以连你的曩昔现在未来都在意,打着“爱”的灯号,停止道德绑架,省省吧。

任何话,只要够尖锐,都是一把刀。

邱莹莹当初也以为,自己会和白渣男在一路啊。

女孩在爱上你之前,也是有权利爱上其他人的。

应勤他自己明哲保身,性情守旧,在婚前根绝性行为,而且也希望具有一个和他一样明哲保身的女朋友,这都是建立在自己的三观上,这一点,完全没有题目。

    可是他也有错,他错在把“非童贞”上升到品德,道德,思惟的题目上。这是把自己的三观强加于他人,自己思惟守旧,就以为他人也必须和他在同一道德标准上,甚至以为樊胜美去找他谈这个题目应当惭愧,怕羞,那就不是自己纯真想要一个童贞的题目了。

在我看来,邱莹莹就是一个纯洁的好姑娘,即使她不是童贞,可是她对每一段豪情都很认真,对每一个男朋友都很埋头,她并不是骗钱骗豪情还带着男生的绿茶婊。






我们所鄙夷的是明显不是童贞,却还处处立牌楼的人。你可以率直的告诉对方你之前的工作,可是不要骗他。

由于豪情所追求的也是最根基的就是同等、信赖和尊重。

所以不管处于什么缘由,都不应当欺骗。你要晓得一个假话以后都需要无数个假话去圆的,而这个假话早晚城市被戳破。一路头就坦诚相待步崆最好的。

应勤自己是处男,没有婚前性行为,明哲保身,有自己的道德底线。他完全有资历要求自己的女朋友是童贞。

而我们所鄙夷的“童贞情结”,是指自己处处寻欢作乐,却又要求另一半是童贞的奇葩心理。

设想一下,你和一个处子之身的少女谈恋爱,两人恩恩爱爱,胶漆相投,因而有一天你们两个共赴云雨,一个龙吟虎啸,一个雏凤初鸣。你谈恋爱的时辰,一心就想着和爱好的人鸳鸯帐里度春宵;那末,妹子的前男友能否是也和你有一样的想法?既然你以为自己可以,那末能否是前男友昔时也可以?

男女同等,你有追求快感的权利,妹子也有追求快感的权利。一样是追求快感,凭什么男生破处没事,女生破处就不可呢?

有童贞情结的人想娶个童贞是他的自在,可他在想娶童贞的同时,却又威胁没成婚的女朋友说:你不跟我上床就是不爱我“,这就叫无耻。

一个处男有童贞情结还好,但一个非处男还有童贞情结,那就是耍地痞了。

你有童贞情结可以,没题目,这是你的自在,但也请你明哲保身,不要两重标准,不要责人以严待己以宽。
                           Is maiden clue of Ying Qin wrong? Have or do not have maiden / male complex, the core that is a person is free, belong to “ to be indifferent to the ” of individual be fond of of dispute. Have place male / the person of maiden complex, absorption go searching maiden / male going interacting is. Disadvantage depends on choosing a side little many, but the person accepts tall difficulty for individual be fond of of one's own accord, this very common.

Heat sows recently " happy eulogy 2 " performing 16 part, when Qiu Yingying's boy friend Ying Qin is informed her is not maiden hind, cast next everybody, those who be without demeanour leave place and go.

The following day Fan Sheng beauty finds Ying Qin, before explaining Qiu Yingying like him, was to encounter broken bits male, was cheated, not be the girl that the sort of everywhere chaos that he imagines comes to.

And Ying Qin's reaction, the straight male cancer that is a standard simply. He says: “ not the person of self-love, you let me how believe she can love others. ”

Will tell from social psychology, because love you too,be, the past that connects you so will be cared about now, hitting “ to love the banner of ” , undertake morality kidnaps, save a province.

Any words, as long as quite sharp, it is a knife.

Qiu Yingying also thinks at the outset, him meeting and white slag male be together.

The girl is in before falling in love with you, also the right falls in love with someone else.

Ying Qin he himself preserve one's moral integrity, nature is conservative, sexual behavior is put an end to before marriage, and also hope have to mix he is same the girlfriend of preserve one's moral integrity, this is to establish the 3 concept in oneself, this, do not have a problem completely.

   But he is wrong also, his fault is in be not “ maiden ” rises to character, morality, on the problem of the thought. This is force oneself 3 view at other, him thought is conservative, think others also must be with him on same morality standard, think Fan Sheng beauty goes looking for him to talk about this problem even should abashed, be bashful, that is not oneself pure want a maiden issue.

Look in me, qiu Yingying is a pure good girl, although she is not maiden, but she is very serious to each paragraphs of feeling, very concentrated to each boy friend, she is not the green tea Biao that kite cheats feeling to still bringing a man student.






What what we distain is not be maiden obviously, still establish the person of memorial archway everywhere however. You can tell the other side candidly the thing before you, but do not cheat him.

Because of emotional place pursuit also is the basiccest,be equality, accredit and esteem.

Be in what reason without giving thought to so, should not cheat. Countless crammer need to go after you should know a crammer round, and this crammer is met sooner or later by tear. It is best that straight-out at the beginning photograph needs talent.

Him Ying Qin is to be in male, without the sexual behavior before marriage, preserve one's moral integrity, have oneself moral bottom line. He is completely qualified ask oneself girlfriend is maiden.

And the ” of “ maiden complex that we distain, it is to point to oneself everywhere be on the tiles, ask other in part is maiden strange flower psychology again however.

Imagine, you and a place child the girl of the body talks about love, conjugal love of two people favour loves, be deeply attached to each other, one day then you go to making love twice in all, roars of a tiger of chant of a dragon, a Chu Fengchu cries. When you talk about love, of one mind wants to Chun Xiao is spent in move and account book of favorite person an affectionate couple; So, of the girl before does male friend also have same think of a way with you? Since you think you are OK, be so before male friend in those days OK also?

Equality of men and women, you have the right that seeks pleasure, the girl also has the right that seeks pleasure. It is pursuit pleasure likewise, by what schoolboy lousy place does not have a thing, is schoolgirl lousy place no good?

The person that has maiden complex wants to marry maiden the freedom that is him, but he is wanting to marry maiden while, browbeat again however the girlfriend that did not marry says: You do not love my “ namely with my go to bed, this cries shameless.

A place male have maiden complex not bad, but a blame is in male still have maiden complex, that is behave like a hooligan.

It is OK that you have maiden complex, sure, this is your freedom, but also invite your mind one's own business in order to keep out of trouble, do not want double standard, not duty the person is waited for with fathering oneself with wide.

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