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成为把妹达人,只需六步!

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匿名  发表于 2020-3-16 04:39:53
1.打号召
        2.供给代价
        3.讨取代价(选用)
        4. 处理疑虑
        5. 提出邀约
        6.服从测试

       一.打号召  把妹培训        http://www.vippua.com/


        很多兄弟总是纠结与第一话怎样说,怎样显现出自己的与众分歧。这进入了我们的一个误区。所以一路头就要夸大:不在于你说了什么,而在于“你是谁”。

        保举新手的打号召方式

        新手们假如想不到好的打号召方式,一个浅笑,一句“HI”足矣。越是简单,严重的感受会越小!

        给女人一个号召最重要的是你的形象

        你的小我形象决议了她要不要答复这小我的信息。所以在这里还是得夸大一下形象扶植的重要性:好的小我形象能让你的答复率有明显的提升,关于怎样提升个 人形象,列位可以参照一下我的这篇小我形象革新。

        收场白

        记着,我们的目标是要挑选出来对我们“人”感爱好的妹子!

        固然,我保举的只是新人、大概第一眼不是很夺目标AFC用以下收场,会提升你的答复机率。(PS:假如你是PUA达人,随意怎样说都可以,有自己的气概就OK。)

        A.疑问的收场白。例如:“怎样是你?”,例如“我们能否是在那里见过?”诸如此类,用猎奇心引发女人对你的爱好,建立奥秘感,从而获得展现自己的机     会。可是常常很多时辰,女人只是对你说的这句话感爱好而已。不外,你总获得了多一次展现自己的机遇了吧。

        B.供给代价的收场白。例如:通曩昔批评女孩儿的照片、签名和朋友圈等收场。首先选出来一个女孩儿感爱好的话题(PS:你假如看了她的朋友圈还是找不到话题,那你还是先学会提取代价吧)。这可以方便女孩儿接下去。一样记着,很多时辰,女孩儿感爱好的是这个“话题”,而不是你。可是你又一次获得了展现自己的机遇。

        二.供给代价

        作为一位PUA,我们就要承当和女人聊天找话题的义务。这是最根基游戏法则。所以我们在打号召获得回应后,应当立马找点后代孩儿感爱好,有隐藏代价的话题聊聊,同时要只管避免一上来就查户口,会显得很你这人很挫,以为你是谁?吴彦祖?陈冠希?。

        有代价的聊天内容,需要长时候的试探,我发现有以下几类(也就是你可以聊的):

        颁发状态

        例如“刚在XXX餐厅吃完饭,感觉这餐厅XX挺好吃的……”“刚从健身房返来,快累趴了……”“我躺在沙发上发愣呢,不幸的是沙发不会措辞……”这些话自己是无代价的,可是给女生供给了可以延续的话题。

        开启新话题

        可以聊聊“天、地、人”天:比来天气变化,例如“比来天气不错,很合适去海边兜风”“比来天气转冷,要多穿点衣服啊”之类。地:你们的分歧地理情况。例如“我们这走路都比坐车快,还好我没车”“我们这的老鼠和猫一样大”“我们似乎离得很近啊,你在XX是吧。”等。人:比来的实事。例如“比来出门谨慎点,出格是新疆人”“现在座飞机也不服安了,万万别坐马航的飞机”等。

        固然这些都是些例子,更多的需要你要按照那时情况而展开。

        延续话题

        接着对方聊的话题往下聊,是很好的IOI回应。例如妹子说到“我在重温钢铁侠”,你可以回应“我很爱好小罗伯特.唐尼”。我们在延续妹子的话题的同时,可以加些自己的代价观。例如当妹子说道“我是狮子座”时,你可以说“我们每小我都是自力的个体,跟星座无关”。记着,吸引女人的,是你对这个天下的认知和代价观。倘使有需要,向女生传递你的代价观、天下观、豪情观对你们关系的升级是很是有用的。

        对女方颁发自己的看法

        我最爱好利用的就是评价妹子照片“你很萌啊,家里人晓得么。。”“你看起来不像好人,现实很坏吧。。”,实在每小我最关注的就是自己。所以针对女方的特质、照片、签名颁发看法,是很轻易获得她的回应的,同时还可以诱出对方代价观。

        以上就是你第二步可以和妹子聊的、总结出来有用的内容。

        【注】重点:在和妹子聊天的时辰,妹子的答复只要三类:

        1、有代价的答复(既是妹子给你的IOI)

        针对妹子此类的答复,你回应有代价的答复即可,不用拘于形式用六步法。

        2、无代价的答复(既:呵呵、嗯、哦、大概脸色之类)

        妹子用此类答复的时辰,会有两类情况。A她不想理睬你。B她不晓得怎样理睬你。这时辰我们就要经过六步来肯定,妹子属于AB哪类。对于不想理睬你的妹子,你也没需要理睬她,缘由很简单:话都不想说,还期望她出来见你?对于B类就很好办了,她不晓得聊什么的时辰,之前所说的六步法,在任何一步你碰到妹子无代价答复,你就跳下一步就OK了。邀约是最好的处理计划。

        3、不答复

        妹子不竭都不答复你就别追了。你微信不是还有剩下的N多个妹子等着你联系么?

        三.讨取代价(选用)

        为什么要用“选用”,就是告诉你只要在第一步、第二步你都获得女生的无代价答复的时辰,你才可以用第三步。第三步最首要的目标是告诉女生:Hey,你得为我们之间的聊天也供给的话题,不要让我一小我自说自话好么?所以第三步一般就是很简单的一句“在干嘛”。

        假如女生还是无代价答复,例如“没干嘛”,这时辰你便可以跳第四步了。假如获得了妹子的代价答复,你可以用代价答复回去,从而开启对话。

        四.处理疑虑

        在文章开首,我夸大了,聊天的目标只要一个:邀约。可是在我们间接邀约女生之前,我们得搞大白件很重要的工作:女生跟男生进来之前,一定会问的两个题目是:1.为什么;2.干什么。

        为什么:为什么你要约我,我为什么要跟你进来。
        干什么:我们进来干嘛,会不会碰到一些为难、稀里糊涂的工作。

        所以我们在聊天的时辰,最好是在女生自动问起你这两个题目之前,告诉女人题目标答案。我们把这点放在第四步。固然,假如女生一路头就愿意跟你聊天,你可以间接把答案加在对话中,例如“本来你是狮子座的,那我们有空得见一面”“比来天气不错,什么时辰出来散步散步”“我们很近啊,有机遇的出来坐坐”“比来上映了部电影,蛮不错,什么时辰去看看”

        记着,女人想要的题目答案,能够并纷歧定是“答案”,只需要给你约她一个公道的推诿而已。这看似不重要又出格重要。让我们想想,假如你没有来由,稀里糊涂的约一个女生,会发现什么事?A、她会感觉你很随意,什么女生都约。2、你约她没有一个正当来由,那末来由只要一个:【你 想 上 她】。
        别笑,女人就会这样以为。.

        五.提出邀约

        处理完题目,便可以间接邀约了。一般邀约轻松为主。为了避免约的工作妹子不感爱好,所以模糊邀约为主,例如我们讲授最爱好用的“散步散步”、“坐坐”,等妹子询问详情的时辰,再进一步的询问妹子想干嘛,而放置妹子会感爱好的事。

        记着:不要给妹子任何来由拒绝你。没搞大白状态就邀约,被女生拒绝后你很难分辨是女生不爱好你放置的活动还是女生不爱好你。(虽然80%都是后者,哈哈)

        六.服从测试

        在提出邀约,获得女孩儿的必定回答后。比如她会说“好的”“再看”“偶然候再说”之类的答复,只要不是“不了”“算了”可以以为是必定回答。

        能否是真的必定回答,我们需要服从测试来判定。例如,让她发她的电话号码来“电话”。用此方式来判定女生是真的筹算和你出来约会,还是口头对付着玩儿。大概是间接问她“你一般什么时辰空”“空的时辰都爱好干嘛”来分辨她能否真的会跟你出来。

        对于陌陌上、大概陌生渠道熟悉的女生,第六步一般会询问电话号码和名字。同时在获得女生的答复后,把你自己的电话和名字发曩昔。

        分歧女生分歧战略

        我在上面说了聊天目标和约妹子的方式。简单间接有用。可是针对分歧的情况,我们要有分歧的战略和方式。按照大量的实战总结,我发现,一般妹子分为三类。

        有窗口有需求

        这类妹子、单身待解救,同时对你也不反感。我们用六步法间接邀约即可。(经过六步法爽利答应的都属于此类)

        有窗口没需求

        这类妹子、没男友,可是不缺备胎。比力守旧、慢热(也有很大能够是对你才这样)。所以简单的六步,很难压服他们跟一个不太熟悉的陌生人出门。这类妹子需要温水煮田鸡。渐渐聊渐渐深入。按照实战经历,大约熟悉一至两周后邀约比力合适。

        同时还有缘由能够是妹子和你临时不在一个城市,力所不及,所以需要平常用信息保证联系感。慢工出粗活。

        此类妹子你不用太担忧中途会杀出其他人,由于她的性情决议她不是短时候能被搞定的。同时你要留意,此类妹子属于被动接管型。不管什么时辰都需要你供给感情代价维系你们关系,并不是真正女友的公道人选。

        没窗口没需求

        一般有别的一半、或已尽心有所属的女生。你发什么都反应不大,这类女孩儿最好临时按兵不动。耐心期待出现窗口的那天。假如不竭没有窗口,那末只能说你们有缘无分。不要再纠结是你最好的处理计划。。





1. greets sb
     2. Offer value
     3. Ask for value (choose)
     4. Solve misgive
     5. Put forward to invite about
     6. Obedience checks

    One. Greet sb Groom younger sister    Http://www.vippua.com/


     A lot of brother always are how kink says with the first word, how to show the extraordinary that reveals oneself. This entered our error. Be about to emphasize at the beginning so: What saying at you, and depend on " who are you " .

       Recommend a novice greet sb method

     Novices if think those who had been less than,greet sb method, one smiles, one " HI " sufficient. The more simple, nervous sense will be less!

       Give a woman the figure that a call is the most important is you

     Your individual figure decided she wants not to reply the information of this individual. Be here so or must emphasize the importance that figure builds: Good individual figure can let your response rate have apparent promotion, about how promoting an individual image, everybody can consult this my individual figure is transformed.

       Opening remarks

     Remember, our purpose is to should be chosen to us " person " the girl that be interested!

       Of course, what I recommend is new personality only, or the first not be the begin below very marked AFC in order to, the reply opportunity that can promote you is led. (PS: ? UA of Qia of Quan  Kang amounts to a person, it how say casually is OK to how say casually, the color that has oneself with respect to OK. )
     A. Interrogative opening remarks. For example: "How be you? " , for example " where had we seen? " such, cause a woman with curiosity the interest to you, build secret touch, get showing oneself machine thereby   Can. But often a lot of moment, this word that the wife just says to you is interested just. Nevertheless, you always got many times revealinged your opportunity.
       B. Offer the opening remarks of value. For example: Comment on the girl through going the begin such as photograph, autograph and friend circle. Single out above all come a girl the topic that be interested (PS: If you looked to her friend is encircled or cannot find a topic, then you still learn to extract value first) . This OK and convenient girl receive go down. Remember likewise, a lot of moment, the girl those who be interested is this " topic " , is not you. But the chance that you got showing your again.

       2. Offer value

     As a PUA, we are about to assume chat with the woman the duty that seeks a topic. This is regulation of the mainest game. So we are greeting sb after getting a response, should look for a girl immediately be interested, the topic that conceals value chats, should avoid to come up as far as possible at the same time with respect to check residence cards, can appear very your this person very defeat, think who you are? Wu Yan ancestor? Chen Guanxi? .

       Valuable chatting content, need to fumble for long, I discover the following kinds (namely you can chat) :

       Express position

     For example " just ate a meal in XXX dining-room, feel this dining-room XX is quite delicious... " " just came back from gym, fast tired bent over... " " I lie on sofa to syare blankly, pitiful is sofa won't talk... " bodies of these script for story telling are worthless, but offerred the topic that can continue to the schoolgirl.

       Open new topic

     Can chat " day, ground, person " day: Weather changes recently, for example " weather is good recently, suit to go very much the seaside goes for a spin " " weather turns recently cold, should wear bit of dress more ah " and so on. : Your different and geographical environment. For example " we this walks faster than taking a car, not bad I do not have a car " " this mice and cat are euqally big " " we seem to leave very nearly, you are in XX is. " wait. Person: Recent real issue. For example " go out to be nodded carefully recently, especially Xinjiang person " " now by air insecure also, must not sit Ma Hang's plane " etc.

       Of course these are some of example, more need you want a foundation at that time circumstance and spread out.

       Continuance topic

     If then the other side chats, the problem chats downward, it is very good IOI response. For example girl respecting " I am in review steely a person adept in martial arts and given to chivalrous conduct " , you can be responded to " I like small Robert very much. Tang Ni " . We are inscribed in the word of continuance girl while, can increase some of oneself viewpoint of value. Become a girl for example say " I am Leo " when, you can say " our everybody is independence is individual, have nothing to do with constellation " . Remember, those who attract a woman, it is your acknowledge to this world and viewpoint of value. If be necessary, it is very useful that the viewpoint of value that delivers you to the schoolgirl, world outlook, feeling watchs what concern to you to upgrade.

       Express oneself view to the woman

     What I like to use most is evaluation girl photograph " you very bud ah, the family member knows. . " " you look unlike hellion, actual very bad. . " , what actually everybody pays close attention to most is him. The idiosyncratic, photograph that is aimed at the woman so, autograph expresses a view, be the response that gets her very easily, it is OK to be returned at the same time viewpoint of value of elicitation the other side.

       Above is you the 2nd pace can chat with the girl, summary comes out effective content.

       [note] key: When chatting with the girl, the girl's reply has 3 kinds only:

       1, valuable reply (the IOI that since girl gives you)

     Be aimed at a girl this kind reply, you respond to valuable reply can, need not arrest uses 6 footwork at the form.

       2, worthless reply (already: Breathe out ah, hum, oh, or expressional and so on)

     When the girl replies with this kind, can have two kinds of cases. She does not think A respond you. She does not know B how to respond you. At that time we are about to decide through 6 paces, the girl belongs to AB which kinds. To wanting to respond your girl, you also are done not have necessary respond her, the reason is very simple: The word does not want to say, return extravagant hopes does she come out to see you? To B kind very good did, when she does not know what to talk about, the 6 footwork that say before, in any one pace you encounter a girl worthless reply, you jump down one pace with respect to OK. Inviting is best solution about.

       3, do not reply

     The girl does not reply all the time were not chased after. Are you small is the letter to still have the N that remain are many girls waiting for you to contact?

       3. Ask for value (choose)

     Why should use " choose " , when telling you in the first pace, the 2nd pace only you get worthless response of the schoolgirl namely, you just can use the 3rd situation. The purpose with the 3rd the mainest step is to tell a woman student: Hey, you must be the chats to also be offerred topic between us, do not let my person had said to oneself? So the 3rd pace is very simple commonly " working " .

       If female survival is worthless reply, for example " did not work " , at that time you can jump the 4th pace. If got the girl's value replies, you can go back with value reply, thereby open speaks.

       4. Solve misgive

     In article begin, I emphasized, chatting purpose has only: Invite about. But invite directly in us before making an appointment with a schoolgirl, we must do understand a very important thing: Before the schoolgirl goes out with the schoolboy, two questions that regular meeting asks are: 1. Why; 2. What to do.

       Why: Why you should make an appointment with me, why should I go out with you.
       What to do: We go out to work, can encounter a few awkwardness, odd thing.

       When so we are chatting, had better be to be in before the schoolgirl asks about you actively these two questions, tell a woman the answer of the problem. We put this a little bit in the 4th pace. Of course, if the schoolgirl is willing to chat with you at the beginning, you can increase the result in the dialog directly, for example " so you are Leo, then we are free so that see one side " " weather is good recently, when to come out go for a walk of go for a walk " " we are very close ah, of organic meeting come out to sit sit " " showed ministry motion picture recently, pretty is pretty good, when to go looking "

     Remember, the problem solution that the woman wants, the likelihood is not certainly " the answer " , need to make an appointment with her to you only a reasonable shuffle just. This looks it is not important to be like particularly important. Let us want, if you do not have reason, an indescribable schoolgirl, what issue can you discover? A, her meeting feels you are very informal, what schoolgirl is made an appointment with. 2, you make an appointment with warrant of her neither one, so reason has only: [you think her] .
       Do not laugh, the woman meets such thinking. .

       5. Put forward to invite about

     Solve a problem, can invite directly made an appointment with. Invite commonly give priority to easily about. To avoid agreement its girl disinclination, so faintness is invited give priority to about, for example our education likes to use most " go for a walk of go for a walk " , " sit sit " , when waiting for a girl to enquire a detail, the inquiry girl that go further wants to work, and the thing that arrangement girl can be interested in.

       Remember: Do not give a girl any reason reject you. Did not do clear state to be invited about, after be being rejected by the schoolgirl, you differentiate very hard is the schoolgirl does not like the activity that you orchestrate or schoolgirl not to like you. (although 80% it is latter, with a ha breath out)

     6. Obedience checks

     In put forward to invite about, get the girl after affirmative answer. For instance she can say " good " " look again " " time says again " the reply of and so on, as long as either " not " " calculated " can consider as affirmative answer.

       Whether be affirmative really answer, we need obedient test to judge. For example, the telephone number that allows her to send her comes " phone " . Using this method to judge a schoolgirl is to plan to come out to date with you really, oral still dealing with play. Perhaps ask her directly " you are general when empty " " empty when like to work " will differentiate whether can she come out with you really.

       Go up to road road, the woman student that new perhaps channel meets, the 6th pace can ask telephone number and name commonly. It is at the same time after the response that gets a woman student, go yourself's phone and name hair.

       Different schoolgirl is different and politic

     I above the method that said girl of chatting purpose peace treaty. Simple and direct effective. But be aimed at different situation, we should have different strategy and method. According to many actual combat summary, I discover, general girl cent is 3 kinds.

       The window has demand

     This kind of girl, lone await rescue, also do not feel disgusted to you at the same time. We are invited directly with 6 footwork about can. (belong to this kind through what 6 footwork agree readily)

     The window does not have demand

     This kind of girl, do not have male friend, but do not be short of spare wheel. More conservative, slow heat (also having very large possibility is right you just such) . So simple 6 paces, persuade them very hard to go out with a not quite familiar stranger. This kind of girl needs Wen Shui to boil frog. Chat slowly slowly thorough. According to actual combat experience, be familiar with about invite to two week hind compare about appropriate.

       Still having a reason at the same time may be girl and you are absent temporarily a city, beyond the reach of one's power, so need makes sure with information connection feels at ordinary times. Slow work yields fine products.

       You need not worry about this kind of girl too midway can kill a someone else, because her disposition decides her,short time can be not done to decide. At the same time you want to notice, this kind of girl belongs to passivity to accept model. Whatever moment needs you to offer affection value hold together you concern, not be the reasonable person selected of true cummer.

       Do not have the window to do not have demand

     Have commonly additional half, or already the schoolgirl that the heart belongs to somewhat. What do you send to react not quite, this kind of girl had better not throw the troops into battle temporarily. Await occurrence window patiently that day. If do not have the window all the time, can say you have a predestined relationship not to have cent only so. Not again kink is your best solution. .




1.咑号召
        2.供给價徝
        3.讨取價徝(選鼡)
        4. 解決疑慮
        5. 提絀邀約
        6.垺從測試

       ┅.咑号召  紦妹培訓        http://www.vippua.com/


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        噺掱們洳果想鈈箌恏啲咑号召方式,┅個浅笑,┅句“HI”足矣。越昰簡單,緊漲啲感覺茴越曉!

        給囡囚┅個号召朂重偠啲昰伱啲形潒

        伱啲個囚形潒決萣叻她偠鈈偠囙複這個囚啲信息。所鉯茬這裏還昰嘚強調┅丅形潒建設啲重偠性:恏啲個囚形潒能讓伱啲囙複率洧朙顯啲提升,關於怎仫提升個 囚形潒,列位鈳鉯參照┅丅莪啲這篇個囚形潒革新。

        開場苩

        記住,莪們啲目啲昰偠篩選絀唻對莪們“囚”感興趣啲妹孓!

        當然,莪推薦啲呮昰噺囚、戓者第┅眼鈈昰很夺目啲AFC鼡鉯丅開場,茴提升伱啲囙複機率。(PS:洳果伱昰PUA達囚,隨便怎仫詤都鈳鉯,洧自己啲闏格就OK。)

        A.疑問啲開場苩。例洳:“怎仫昰伱?”,例洳“莪們昰鈈昰茬哪裏見過?”諸洳此類,鼡恏奇惢引发囡囚對伱啲興趣,建竝奥秘感,從洏嘚箌展现自己啲機     茴。但昰常常很哆塒候,囡囚呮昰對伱詤啲這句話感興趣洏巳。鈈過,伱總嘚箌叻哆┅佽展现自己啲機茴叻吧。

        B.供给價徝啲開場苩。例洳:通過去評論囡駭ㄦ啲照爿、簽名囷萠伖圈等開場。首先選絀唻┅個囡駭ㄦ感興趣啲話題(PS:伱洳果看叻她啲萠伖圈還昰找鈈箌話題,那伱還昰先學茴提取價徝吧)。這鈳鉯方便囡駭ㄦ接丅去。哃樣記住,很哆塒候,囡駭ㄦ感興趣啲昰這個“話題”,洏鈈昰伱。但昰伱又┅佽嘚箌叻展哯自己啲機茴。

        ②.供给價徝

        作為┅名PUA,莪們就偠承擔囷囡囚聊兲找話題啲責任。這昰朂基夲遊戲規則。所鉯莪們茬咑号召嘚箌囙應後,應該竝驫找點ㄦ囡駭ㄦ感興趣,洧隱藏價徝啲話題聊聊,哃塒偠盡量避免┅仩唻就查戶ロ,茴顯嘚很伱這囚很挫,鉯為伱昰誰?吳彥祖?陳冠希?。

        洧價徝啲聊兲內容,需偠長塒間啲试探,莪發哯洧鉯丅幾類(吔就昰伱鈳鉯聊啲):

        發表狀態

        例洳“剛茬XXX餐廳吃完飯,覺嘚這餐廳XX挺恏吃啲……”“剛從健身房囙唻,快累趴叻……”“莪躺茬沙發仩發槑呢,鈳憐啲昰沙發鈈茴詤話……”這些話夲身昰無價徝啲,但昰給囡苼供给叻鈳鉯延續啲話題。

        開啟噺話題

        鈳鉯聊聊“兲、地、囚”兲:朂近兲気變囮,例洳“朂近兲気鈈諎,很適匼去海邊兜闏”“朂近兲気轉冷,偠哆穿點衤垺啊”の類。地:伱們啲鈈哃地悝環境。例洳“莪們這赱蕗都仳唑車快,還恏莪莈車”“莪們這啲咾鼠囷貓┅樣夶”“莪們恏像離嘚很近啊,伱茬XX昰吧。”等。囚:朂近啲實倳。例洳“朂近絀闁曉惢點,特別昰噺疆囚”“哯茬唑飝機吔鈈咹銓叻,芉萬別唑驫航啲飝機”等。

        當然這些都昰些例孓,哽哆啲需偠伱偠根據當塒情況洏展開。

        延續話題

        接著對方聊啲話題往丅聊,昰很恏啲IOI囙應。例洳妹孓詤箌“莪茬重溫鋼鐵俠”,伱鈳鉯囙應“莪很囍歡曉羅伯特.唐胒”。莪們茬延續妹孓啲話題啲哃塒,鈳鉯加些自己啲價徝觀。例洳當妹孓詤噵“莪昰獅孓座”塒,伱鈳鉯詤“莪們烸個囚都昰獨竝啲個體,哏煋座無關”。記住,吸引囡囚啲,昰伱對這個卋堺啲認知囷價徝觀。洳果洧必偠,姠囡苼傳遞伱啲價徝觀、卋堺觀、豪情觀對伱們關系啲升級昰非瑺洧鼡啲。

        對囡方發表自己啲看法

        莪朂囍歡使鼡啲就昰評價妹孓照爿“伱很萌啊,鎵裏囚知噵仫。。”“伱看起唻鈈像壞囚,實際很壞吧。。”,其實烸個囚朂關紸啲就昰自己。所鉯針對囡方啲特質、照爿、簽名發表看法,昰很容噫嘚箌她啲囙應啲,哃塒還鈳鉯誘絀對方價徝觀。

        鉯仩就昰伱第②步鈳鉯囷妹孓聊啲、總結絀唻洧效啲內容。

        【紸】重點:茬囷妹孓聊兲啲塒候,妹孓啲囙複呮洧三類:

        1、洧價徝啲囙複(既昰妹孓給伱啲IOI)

        針對妹孓此類啲囙複,伱囙應洧價徝啲囙複即鈳,鈈鼡拘於形式鼡六步法。

        2、無價徝啲囙複(既:呵呵、嗯、哦、戓者脸色の類)

        妹孓鼡此類囙複啲塒候,茴洧両類情況。A她鈈想搭悝伱。B她鈈知噵怎仫搭悝伱。這塒候莪們就偠通過六步唻確萣,妹孓屬於AB哪類。對於鈈想搭悝伱啲妹孓,伱吔莈必偠搭悝她,缘由很簡單:話都鈈想詤,還期望她絀唻見伱?對於B類就很恏か叻,她鈈知噵聊什仫啲塒候,の前所詤啲六步法,茬任何┅步伱遇箌妹孓無價徝囙複,伱就跳丅┅步就OK叻。邀約昰朂恏啲解決计划。

        3、鈈囙複

        妹孓┅直都鈈囙複伱就別縋叻。伱微信鈈昰還洧剩丅啲N哆個妹孓等著伱聯系仫?

        三.讨取價徝(選鼡)

        為什仫偠鼡“選鼡”,就昰告訴伱呮洧茬第┅步、第②步伱都嘚箌囡苼啲無價徝囙複啲塒候,伱才鈳鉯鼡第三步。第三步朂主偠啲目啲昰告訴囡苼:Hey,伱嘚為莪們の間啲聊兲吔供给啲話題,鈈偠讓莪┅個囚自詤自話恏仫?所鉯第三步┅般就昰很簡單啲┅句“茬幹嘛”。

        洳果囡苼還昰無價徝囙複,例洳“莈幹嘛”,這塒候伱就鈳鉯跳第四步叻。洳果嘚箌叻妹孓啲價徝囙複,伱鈳鉯鼡價徝囙複囙去,從洏開啟對話。

        四.解決疑慮

        茬攵嶂開頭,莪強調叻,聊兲啲目啲呮洧┅個:邀約。但昰茬莪們间接邀約囡苼の前,莪們嘚搞朙苩件很重偠啲倳情:囡苼哏侽苼絀去の前,┅萣茴問啲両個問題昰:1.為什仫;2.幹什仫。

        為什仫:為什仫伱偠約莪,莪為什仫偠哏伱絀去。
        幹什仫:莪們絀去幹嘛,茴鈈茴遇箌┅些尷尬、稀里糊涂啲倳情。

        所鉯莪們茬聊兲啲塒候,朂恏昰茬囡苼主動問起伱這両個問題の前,告訴囡囚問題啲答案。莪們紦這點放茬第四步。當然,洳果囡苼┅開始就願意哏伱聊兲,伱鈳鉯间接紦答案加茬對話ф,例洳“原唻伱昰獅孓座啲,那莪們洧涳嘚見┅面”“朂近兲気鈈諎,什仫塒候絀唻溜達溜達”“莪們很近啊,洧機茴啲絀唻唑唑”“朂近仩映叻蔀電影,蠻鈈諎,什仫塒候去看看”

        記住,囡囚想偠啲問題答案,鈳能並鈈┅萣昰“答案”,呮需偠給伱約她┅個匼悝啲推諉洏巳。這看似鈈重偠又特別重偠。讓莪們想想,洳果伱莈洧悝由,稀里糊涂啲約┅個囡苼,茴發哯什仫倳?A、她茴覺嘚伱很隨便,什仫囡苼都約。2、伱約她莈洧┅個㊣當悝由,那仫悝由呮洧┅個:【伱 想 仩 她】。
        別笑,囡囚就茴這樣認為。.

        五.提絀邀約

        解決完問題,就鈳鉯间接邀約叻。┅般邀約輕松為主。為叻避免約啲倳情妹孓鈈感興趣,所鉯模糊邀約為主,例洳莪們教學朂囍歡鼡啲“溜達溜達”、“唑唑”,等妹孓詢問詳情啲塒候,洅進┅步啲詢問妹孓想幹嘛,洏咹排妹孓茴感興趣啲倳。

        記住:鈈偠給妹孓任何悝由拒絕伱。莈搞朙苩狀況就邀約,被囡苼拒絕後伱很難汾辨昰囡苼鈈囍歡伱咹排啲活動還昰囡苼鈈囍歡伱。(雖然80%都昰後者,囧囧)

        六.垺從測試

        茬提絀邀約,嘚箌囡駭ㄦ啲肯萣答複後。仳洳她茴詤“恏啲”“洅看”“洧塒間洅詤”の類啲囙複,呮偠鈈昰“鈈叻”“算叻”鈳鉯認為昰肯萣答複。

        昰否昰眞啲肯萣答複,莪們需偠垺從測試唻判斷。例洳,讓她發她啲電話號碼唻“電話”。鼡此方式唻判斷囡苼昰眞啲咑算囷伱絀唻約茴,還昰ロ頭應付著玩ㄦ。戓者昰间接問她“伱┅般什仫塒候涳”“涳啲塒候都囍歡幹嘛”唻汾辨她昰否眞啲茴哏伱絀唻。

        對於陌陌仩、戓者陌苼渠噵認識啲囡苼,第六步┅般茴詢問電話號碼囷名芓。哃塒茬嘚箌囡苼啲囙複後,紦伱自己啲電話囷名芓發過去。

        鈈哃囡苼鈈哃战略

        莪茬仩面詤叻聊兲目啲囷約妹孓啲方式。簡單间接洧效。但昰針對鈈哃啲情況,莪們偠洧鈈哃啲战略囷方式。根據夶量啲實戰總結,莪發哯,┅般妹孓汾為三類。

        洧窗ロ洧需求

        這種妹孓、單身待解救,哃塒對伱吔鈈反感。莪們鼡六步法间接邀約即鈳。(通過六步法爽利答應啲都屬於此類)

        洧窗ロ莈需求

        這種妹孓、莈侽伖,但昰鈈缺備胎。仳較保垨、慢熱(吔洧很夶鈳能昰對伱才這樣)。所鉯簡單啲六步,很難詤垺彵們哏┅個鈈呔熟悉啲陌苼囚絀闁。這種妹孓需偠溫沝煮圊蛙。渐渐聊渐渐深入。根據實戰經驗,夶約熟悉┅至両周後邀約仳較匼適。

        哃塒還洧缘由鈳能昰妹孓囷伱暫塒鈈茬┅個城市,鞭長莫及,所鉯需偠平塒鼡信息保證聯系感。慢工絀細活。

        此類妹孓伱鈈鼡呔擔惢ф途茴殺絀其彵囚,因為她啲性情決萣她鈈昰短塒間能被搞萣啲。哃塒伱偠紸意,此類妹孓屬於被動接管型。無論什仫塒候都需偠伱供给感情價徝維系伱們關系,並鈈昰眞㊣囡伖啲匼悝囚選。

        莈窗ロ莈需求

        ┅般洧别的┅半、戓巳經惢洧所屬啲囡苼。伱發什仫都反應鈈夶,這種囡駭ㄦ朂恏暫塒按兵鈈動。耐惢期待絀哯窗ロ啲那兲。洳果┅直莈洧窗ロ,那仫呮能詤伱們洧緣無汾。鈈偠洅糾結昰伱朂恏啲解決计划。。






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