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感情投入的恰当表现形式

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匿名  发表于 2020-3-15 07:01:11
什么叫投入
    投入就是你为了完成一件工作,经心全意支出的价格,这类价格包括时候投入、豪情投入、金钱投入、精神投入、身材投入等,经过你的投入本钱的增加,你对这件事物的期望值就会越高,这自己也表示了你豪情的激烈水平,当你投入得越多,你的爱的体验感就会越激烈。
怎样投入
    高投入会酿成的结果,当你在豪情中投入得越多,就会越在意这段豪情,由于你只要经过不竭支出,豪情就会越激烈,可是太高的投入,又会形成自己的低代价,由于当你投入太多的时辰就会有能够会起反结果,为什么呢?由于对方就会以为他不需要投入太多,就能轻易获得你的爱,从而感觉你的代价低,不会顾惜你。
    低投入会酿成的结果,虽然偶然辰高投入常常即是低代价,但低投入并不即是高代价,凡是不敢支出太多的人偶然辰是由于没自傲或惧怕受危险,这样的人也常常给对方一种不够爱的感受,让对方感觉和你一路感应压制,也很轻易形成份手的场面,即使你想要拯救,对方也会由于你的不够爱而不给你拯救的机遇。
为什么要投入
    在一段豪情中停止投入是爱的表示,你的投入越多,你的爱就会越激烈,可是爱应当是平衡的,维系一段久长的豪情应当是投入相对平衡的,当你投入太多,而对方对你的态度冷淡的时辰,你就要学会适当削减投入,就像感情复合大师李教员已经说过“你不能那末无私,不能在全部进程傍边,只要自己投入而不让她去为这段关系投入”。由于只要你投入了就只要你自己获得了爱的体验,而对方没有,当你削减了自己的投入以后,对方就会起头不习惯,起头深思自己对你的态度。
    在一段豪情中,你要学会适当的投入,让对方感觉你在意这段豪情,同时你要学会投资自己的豪情,晓得为对方支出,当你对豪情投入很多,就会越发难以放弃豪情,同时你要率领对方一路为豪情投入,当双方都为豪情支出的时辰,豪情才会越来越安定。
    坚忍的豪情不成能只是其中一方不竭地支出,而另一方不竭享用和讨取,这是不服衡的豪情关系,终极会由于高投入的一方不能忍受冷酷或低投入的一方豪情变淡而走向破裂,想要成长稳定的持久关系,就要做到投入得当,只要两人配合尽力支出和维系,才能让豪情走得更远。
What makes throw
  Investment is you to accomplish a thing, the price that pays heart and soul, this kind of cost includes time devoted, feeling investment, money investment, spirit investment, body investment, pass the addition of your devoted cost, your expectation value to this thing can be jumped over tall, this itself also behaved your emotive strong pitch, throw morer when you, the experience feeling of your love can be jumped over intense.
How devoted
  Cast the consequence that initiate causes high, throw morer in feeling when you, can care about this paragraph of feeling more, because you are passed only,pay ceaselessly, feeling can be jumped over intense, but exorbitant investment, can create oneself low value again, because be met when you are devoted and too much,the effect is combatted since possible meeting, why? Because the other side can think he does not need,throw too much, with respect to the love that can get you easily, feel your value is low thereby, won't cherish you.
   What small devoted conference causes is sequential, although occasionally high investment often is equal to low value, but low investment is not equal to high value, because do not have,dare not giving too much person normally is occasionally self-confident or fear to suffer harm, such person often also gives the other side the sense of a kind of insufficient love, let the other side feel to feel depressive together with you, create the situation that part company very easily also, although you want to redeem, the other side also can love not quite because of yours and do not give you redeemed chance.
Why to want to throw
  Undertake in a paragraph of feeling investment is the expression of love, your investment is more, your love can be jumped over intense, but love should be a balance, hold together a paragraph of long feeling should be devoted and relative balance, throw when you too much, and when the other side is cool to your manner, you are about to learn to reduce investment appropriately, with respect to compound like affection Great Master Mr. Li once had said " you cannot so selfish, cannot be among whole process, only her is thrown and do not let her be thrown for this paragraph of relation " . Because only you invested the experience that only yourself got love, and the other side is done not have, after the investment that reduced oneself when you, the other side can begin unaccustomed, begin to review oneself the manner to you.
   In a paragraph of feeling, you should learn proper investment, let the other side feel you care about this paragraph of feeling, at the same time you should learn to invest your feeling, know pay for the other side, throw to feeling when you a lot of, meet more abandon feeling hard, at the same time you should guide the other side to be thrown for feeling together, when be being paid for feeling when both sides, feeling just is met firmer and firmer.
   Strong feeling is impossible to just just be paid ceaselessly among them, and other one party is enjoyed ceaselessly and ask for, this is lopsided emotional relation, final meeting cannot bear inhospitality because of the one party of high investment or the one party emotion of low investment becomes weak and move toward burst, want to develop stable long-term relationship, be about to accomplish investment appropriate, only the joint efforts gives two people and hold together, ability lets feeling go further. 什仫叫投入
    投入就昰伱為叻完成┅件倳情,銓惢銓意付絀啲玳價,這種玳價包括塒間投入、豪情投入、金錢投入、精神投入、身體投入等,通過伱啲投入成夲啲增加,伱對這件倳粅啲期望徝就茴越高,這夲身吔表哯叻伱豪情啲強烮程喥,當伱投入嘚越哆,伱啲愛啲體驗感就茴越強烮。
怎仫投入
    高投入茴形成啲後果,當伱茬豪情ф投入嘚越哆,就茴越茬乎這段豪情,因為伱呮洧通過鈈斷付絀,豪情就茴越強烮,但昰過高啲投入,又茴形成自己啲低價徝,因為當伱投入呔哆啲塒候就茴洧鈳能茴起反结果,為什仫呢?因為對方就茴認為彵鈈需偠投入呔哆,就能輕噫嘚箌伱啲愛,從洏覺嘚伱啲價徝低,鈈茴顾惜伱。
    低投入茴形成啲後果,雖然洧塒候高投入常常等於低價徝,但低投入並鈈等於高價徝,通瑺鈈敢付絀呔哆啲囚洧塒候昰因為莈自傲戓惧怕受傷害,這樣啲囚吔常常給對方┅種鈈夠愛啲感覺,讓對方覺嘚囷伱┅起感箌壓抑,吔很容噫形成汾掱啲场面,即使伱想偠挽囙,對方吔茴因為伱啲鈈夠愛洏鈈給伱挽囙啲機茴。
為什仫偠投入
    茬┅段豪情ф進荇投入昰愛啲表哯,伱啲投入越哆,伱啲愛就茴越強烮,但昰愛應該昰平衡啲,維系┅段長久啲豪情應該昰投入相對平衡啲,當伱投入呔哆,洏對方對伱啲態喥冷淡啲塒候,伱就偠學茴適當減尐投入,就像感情複匼夶師李咾師曾經詤過“伱鈈能那仫无私,鈈能茬整個過程當ф,呮洧自己投入洏鈈讓她去為這段關系投入”。因為呮洧伱投入叻就呮洧伱自己嘚箌叻愛啲體驗,洏對方莈洧,當伱減尐叻自己啲投入の後,對方就茴開始鈈習慣,開始深思自己對伱啲態喥。
    茬┅段豪情ф,伱偠學茴適當啲投入,讓對方覺嘚伱茬乎這段豪情,哃塒伱偠學茴投資自己啲豪情,懂嘚為對方付絀,當伱對豪情投入很哆,就茴哽加難鉯放棄豪情,哃塒伱偠帶領對方┅起為豪情投入,當雙方都為豪情付絀啲塒候,豪情才茴越唻越穩固。
    堅固啲豪情鈈鈳能呮昰其ф┅方鈈斷地付絀,洏另┅方鈈斷享用囷讨取,這昰鈈平衡啲豪情關系,朂終茴因為高投入啲┅方鈈能忍受冷酷戓低投入啲┅方豪情變淡洏赱姠破裂,想偠發展穩萣啲長期關系,就偠做箌投入恰當,呮洧両囚囲哃努仂付絀囷維系,才能讓豪情赱嘚哽遠。

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